I’m a sophomore and about a month ago I got dumped by a guy I THOUGHT I was in love with. I was wrong cuz I’m over him now, and we dated almost 9 months. He ignored me half the time. Ever since then, I’ve wanted a bf soooo bad, and now 4 guys like me! I have no idea which one I like best, but there’s one I don’t like.
Guy #1
Alex
He was my first bf, and I dated him a couple times, the longest time being almost 2 months, which isn’t very long. We were on and off a lot. He was clingy, over emotional, dramatic, wanted to marry me, enough said! I don’t wanna go out with him, but I need to tell him that.
Guy #2
Parker
I met him online on Facebook. We clicked on each other on the Are You Interested thing, and then he added me as a friend. We’ve talked and he seems like such a nice guy! I know he’s a Christian, like I am, and that’s very, VERY important to me. He also knows some of my friends. On his profile it says he can sometimes be quiet, and that’s another thing we have in common. My best friend is going to see if I can meet him soon before I choose which guy to go out with, which will hopefully be this weekend at the latest, especially since school ends next week. He doesn’t go to the same school as me.
Guy #3
Tyler
I’ve known him since Freshman year, when he was in my science class. Last year he was kind of obnoxious and got in trouble a lot. A ton of people don’t like him, but this year he’s been trying very hard to be liked, and I can see how much he wants to be liked. He asked me out today, and he was definetely nervous. I said I’d think about it (cuz I had already been talking to Parker).
Guy #4
Grayson
I don’t know much about Grayson, but I invited him to my bonfire on Saturday, and he was there. He likes video games and he’s a really nice guy. I think he might be a little shy, like I am. Only bad thing is my dad got a little too friendly with him, which is kinda….weird. So if I chose him, I guess I’d have competition? But at least I know my dad likes him. My friend told me today that he wants to ask me out but is really nervous. He’s in her last class.
So I have a huge problem! My dad keeps pressuring me to choose Grayson, but that’s only cuz my dad got so buddy-buddy with him! He hasn’t even met the other 2 I like! And when I told him about Parker, he said “He’s probably a druggist”! Okay, Parker knows some of my friends! I even asked them! He lives 3 blocks from my best friend’s bf! It makes me so mad that my dad assumes the worst in people he hasn’t even met!
Anyway, which guy do you think is best and why? I NEED LOTS OF OPINIONS!!!
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I’ll give my opinion on each guy first.
#1 hell no.
#2 Parker. I dont know if you’ve actually met him or not, but people tend to be different online. Best way to learn about people is by actually hanging around them and watching how they treat people. If after you chill with him a few times he seems to be a decent guy, give him consideration.
#3 Tyler. Trying very hard to be liked can be exhausting. Having a gf at this point might be a bit much to handle, unless you can help with his personality issues that made people not like him to begin with. I’d say just be his friend at this point.
#4 Grayson. I wouldn’t consider it competition if he’s buddies with your dad. It might be a little awkward but it could be a blessing.
Personally either 2 or 4 would be your best bet. I would pick #4 though, but it’s your call just pick the one who would seem the least needy
I say choose PARKER. alex is not going to work, but you know that already…you and parker have alot in common and religion is a big thing. If you dont know too much about tyler and he isnt liked and gets in too much trouble he probly isnt a great catch and you DEFINATELY dont want a boyfriend that your dad wants to be friends with…your dad is going to be competing for his attention….PARKER it is