Well, here’s the situation… I’m bi and discovered it about three years ago. I have only ever dated guys, and haven’t had a sexual experience with a girl. I really want to, though. The thing is… I don’t really want a relationship with a girl. In my experience they’re just too mean… I don’t mean to generalize, but no matter my reasons, let’s just say I don’t think I want a relationship with a woman. I am actually currently in a relationship with a guy, and we talked about it a lot, and he (reluctantly) gave me permission to experiment with another girl. Let me be clear, I love this guy, and I want to be with him… it’s just, I have dreams and fantasies about other girls, and it makes me sad to think I might never have an experience with one, so I really want to try… Well, he gave me permission, but of course he’s worried… he says he doesn’t want to try with me, like in a threesome, because he’s too self-conscious, and he’s a little worried that I might like sex better with a woman, and not want to be with him anymore… I want to tell him that that won’t happen, but then I worry a little too… what if I really do like it better? Does that make me a lesbian, or is it just my preferences? I mean logically it doesn’t make sense.. there’s not really anything a girl can do for another girl that a guy can’t, so I wouldn’t think that I’d like sex with a girl better than with a guy… but what if I do? So I’m wondering… do most bi girls have a preference? Or do you like them both the same?
Also, I’m wondering how I might even be able to experiment… a few years ago a friend of a friend said she’d come over and show me some stuff… but I was 16 then, and her mom discovered she was at my house and dragged her away before anything could happen. I just don’t see the opportunity for casual sex with a girl coming up again… is it wrong to look online for that kind of stuff? Is there maybe a place I could look that is kinda meant for this.. experimenting kinda stuff? I’m also a little self-conscious, I’m slightly overweight, and I’d want to make sure to get someone who wouldn’t be disgusted by me.. =’( And of course I worry about the people who frequent casual sex sites having STDs… So… does anyone have any ideas as to how I might arrange to… you know, experiment with another girl?
I know this is a really weird question… And let me be clear, I don’t think being bi or gay is just about sex. But as I’ve already said, I don’t think I want a relationship with a girl, and I’m currently in a committed relationship anyway… I just want to try some stuff. I hope I don’t offend anyone…
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People who are bisexual sometimes don’t have a specific preference, but they’re usually leaning one way or another. Some people to the extent that they never act on their feelings towards one sex because it’s dwarfed in comparison.
Not all girls are shallow or annoying to be with. I sometimes feel like “guh, I hate girls” but I think you need to give it a chance.
It’s not really wrong to have casual sex if it’s mutually casual. As long as you don’t use people and play with their emotions, it’s fine, IMO.
I don’t really know how you could find someone to do that, though. See if you have any friends who can hook you up with someone.
I think your best bet to find a quick casual sex partner would be to go dance at a club (preferably a gay club, more preferably a lesbian club) and meet random girls through the art of dancing to pop music and being sexual.
im lez so havnt had sex with a guy only with gurlz but want 2 c wat other answers r.
i would say girls because its more risky and “forbidden”! :]
Your committed to a guy, but want to have sex with a girl for fun to fulfill your fantasy?
Incredibly selfish, self absorbed, perverted (don’t even care about a real relationship)
Why don’t you just get a raw meat carcass, bite into it getting (mental or physical) who knows what kind of a surprise, and vomitting; hating yourself for ever trying?
[Note: If you honestly care about your boyfriend you should be fulfilled; i’d think if I were him i’d be horrified)
omqq! we are kinda alike! i’ve only been with boys.i’ve had alottttt of thoughts about girls and i do consider myself bisexual. i have had feelings for a girl but never had any REAL sexual experience with one. i wnat to soooo bad! and no thats just your preference. in my eyes im more sexually attarcted to women because they have more “things” lol. guys really only have a d*ck but women have ****,*** and a p*ssy.=]. but im younger than yous o im probably only attracted to them more because i havent experienced with them yet. i think its just the curiousity thats making me more sexually attarcted to women.( im currently with a guy though but if i had the chance to experience with a women now, i would). if your worried about STDs then thats kinda not a good reason because youcan get just as bad of an STD from sex with a man. your boyfriend should understand and if you think that there mite be a chance that you’d like sex with a women more instead of a man then dont do it while you are with him.
i hope everything works out and you can email me if you ahve anymore probs=]
oooh. and im certain, you’d like head better from a girl than a guy=]
WELL, THE SEXUAL EXPERIENCE IS AMAZING BUT WITH A GIRL WOOW FELLS NOTHING LIKE A BOY. ALSO GIRLS KNOW WHAT YOU WANT MORE GUYS ARE WAY INTO WANT THEY WANT.