I know this question has been asked a million times, but now it’s my turn!
I’ve always dated/had sex with guys. However, I’ve always checked out other girls. As far back as I can remember I’ve always looked at other girl’s bodies and I’ve had crushes on girls. I’ve never fooled around with another girl outside of just joking or picking, like a kiss on the cheek or brief kiss on the lips, and a little touching. In the porn community I only watch/look at girl/girl or solo females. I always get super turned on when I see girl/girl porn, and I’m always checking out other girls. Any fantasy of mine involves girl/girl action. I know I’m attracted to girls in a sexual way, and I’ve had crushes. I’ve never found a girl locally to talk to. I chat online with girls and enjoy it. I am just confused as can be! Any suggesions? Also, I’ve never had an orgasm with a guy. I’m attracted to men, but very, very picky.
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I agree with Cloud Nine’s answer.
If you are not attracted to men though, you are a lesbian.
I totally agree! try it out for real it was that way for me I was actually engaged until I realized I like guys more than girls. So, it is feasible to engage in sex with guys and have a greater attraction to girls. Its society sweetie people expect you to have sex with someone of the opposite sex. Needless to say I encourage you to experiment and do what feels best. Good Luck!
When you are bi you usually lean to one side more then the other. It sounds to me you are leaning a little bit more towards women. And if you’ve never had an orgasm with a guy that’s a big red flag. But only you know the answer to this question. My advice hook up with a local girl and see which one you like more
From what I’m hearing it seems like you may be bisexual. Are you attracted to men, besides just liking them for who they are? You didn’t say anything about being attracted to men, you said you dated them.
It is very normal for a female to look at another female. They admire their body, hair, looks, etc. and wish they could look the same. Be very careful. As far as not having an orgasm with a male… that is more commom than not. Read the statistics on that and you will be very surprised..I know I was. Alot of what you read and see on the porm movies/sites are not what they appear to be.(acting is very convincing). I listened to a program once with the porns stars giving insight on their performance video’s and you would be very very surprised at there comments. Your young, time to stop fantasizing.. it can lead to disaster. Be yourself and have fun with your friends and don’t allow anyone to brain wash you please.
Sorry chick your gay. I know its not a norm, or probably not ready to be accepted in your mind yet, but its the sad truth. You can lead a normal life trying to be straight, and thinking you are, but if it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, swims like a duck, its a duck. I mean you can spend the next 10-15 years being with a guy, night after night never having an orgasm, but.. your going to realize that.. hey i’m gay.. after a while!