hi there,,i’m a 20 yrs old virgin girl who thinks i’m more for women! i alwayse had feelings towards my teacher mary in school… still loving her till this moment and had lots of dreams abt me and her 
also have strange feeling when with my female cousin (we r used to share bed and change clothes infrint each other..we even shared bath twice)
here online i’m alwayse talking with other fems only and whem a male IM me i usually lose my interest?!!!
if i’m lesb wht should i do? and u should know dating here is hard so wht at dating with a fem!!!! almost impossible
is being a lesbian is a bad thing????
i’m in abad situation plz advice
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Well first dont listen to some of the rumors both good and bad about homosexuality. I know some homosexuals and I love them just like I love everyone else. I believe in God and I was influenced to believe homosexuality was wrong but I never knew why. Until I read the first chapter of the book of Romans in the Bible and it isnt homosexuality that is just wrong but heterosexuality and bisexuality also becuase we have worship of a particular creature more than God who is the creator which is why some people love animals more than people or may even want sexual relationships with animals and other people men with men or women with women or even a man and a woman. Like for me as a man to lust after many women or one woman instead following my destiny with the women I need to be with because she was made with me in the spirit and therfore we need to hook up in the natural. This feelings could come from many situations one of the being that you have been more infuenced and inspired by the female authority or her sexual essence and figure and havent met a good man. You should embrace into yourself and know that you already have that women figure and sensuality and responsibility its in you!
You dont need it through another women but its okay to be influenced by another womens good character so you can see what a woman can do. I love you and I hope I helped God Bless dont let anybody make you feel ashamed instead trust in God and let Him lead you ask Jesus to come in your heart. Read how in the first book of the Bible Genesis God said. “Let us make man in our image male and female.” Then later on in the second chapter took woman out of man because they were first together in spirit and then in the natural but Adam could only see all the other creatures having mates and didnt know that his mate his help was in him already thats why we get married because marriage denotes oneness and sex is the practice of our oneness as a man and women. Also read the book of Romans in the new testament. God loves you and will be patient with you if you just call on Him. Dont give up. Dont be afraid to tell God the truth and expose yourslef emotinally, spiritually mentally, and physically before Him remember he was accustomed to are nakedness in the garden of Eden He made us and knows us better than ourselves.
Make kissing to man, and compare your feelings.
If it’s not what you want, it means nothing, and you are supposed to find another man you love.
If nothing helps, you’re probably a lesbian.
But you can say for sure about that only after 20 years of being married to a man, not earlier.
You just haven’t had experience with a guy, so you can’t say your gay, its easier to talk to girls, just go out with a guy and see what you think, then you decide
I dont think that this is good. You are having some illusions. According to the law of nature one man for one woman.
Just ignore these things and concentrate on your academic perfomanc. When you later get married and have children everything will be alright.
There is no such thing as homosexuals.
If you are not convinced then find a lesbian partner at http://www.glimpse.com
wait arent you ARAB, i believe that is against your religion
I believe you already realize the truth about your sexuality, you just aren’t ready to verbalize it yet. Until you come to terms with how you feel, none of us can really offer you any advice. Remember one thing, be true to yourself always, because you must live longer with yourself than anyone else! Good Luck!
There is nothing wrong with your feelings, but to reassure your self I would make a good, long and hard plan for my self and experiment with the thought. First, I would maybe discreetly go somewhere and find a male and then a female partner to either to warm up to or just have straight sex and see what works better for you. You may be just bi sexual. But, either way don’t let this make you feel bad. Enjoy what who you are by being you honest with your self. Good luck to you.
sounds like it. nothing wrong with that, but you may want to move to a country with liberal values that is tolerant, and open.
Its all in your head…
UR A LESBO OR A HOMO IT DEPENDS srry bout caps
To some people it’s a bad thing. If that’s what you are, then so be it. Maybe date both and you can figure it out.
Why are you so worried if you are? If you want to live your life in full acceptance of who you are, acknowledge it. If not, then that’s a road to pain, for sure. Lesbian, gay, straight, so what? Just be sure you become more than just your sexuality, whatever it may be.
i can only tell you to go the the closets church and pray
u mite not be a lesbian. naybe you prefer guys and girls.
It depends on where and how you get your hair cut. If you get it cut at Fantastic Dikes and it is a butch cut then it is obvious. If you keep your hair long then you are straddling the fence, or other objects if you prefer.
no
just because u r interested in interacting with girls, u need not be a lesbian and lesbianism is not a bad thing! do what ever is nice for U.
just e-mail me ill tell coz just arabian guy can help arabian girl
My sister is a lesbian. My mom doesn’t care that she is a lesbian, just that she removed herself from all normal lifestyles right out in the open. I don’t hate gay poeople. I just really resent gay people that make it a point to show it
Do all above advices and find out who really you are! If u r a real lesbian, Can I ask “are you dare to live with the your-she from now to the end of your life?”. If YES, go ahead.
Make sure that you don’t have illusion
follow your heart and just make u happy. u cant plz everyone so plz yrself
Can I see the video??????
ok well since ur still a virgin and as it sounds like u havent been attracted to men in awhile. i think ur a les. go out and find a girl that ur attracted to and do ur do and if ur no satisfied then try a guy.
yes u have lesbian tendencies. There is nothing wrong in experimenting with other gorls but in the long run you will be unhappy if you stay in a conservative society. In the US and eurpoe it is not very shocking. may girls stay together but in the arab world it can be hell.
try getting close to a nice guy and he will surely make you change your thoughts.
Your at the age where you are getting in touch with your sexuality. You might be lesbian, you might be bi-curious (AC/DC) in which case you can enjoy the best of both worlds. In order for you to be yourself, you’ll have to get over feeling guilty about it.
NO ITS NOT LIKE THAT KI U R LESBIAN BUT WAT THE THING IS UR R BEING ATTRACTED BY THE BEAUTY OF THE GALS. U CAN GET RID OF THIS THING BY DIVERTING UR ATTENTION TOWARDS THE BOYS.IT WILL BE DIFFICULT FOR U BUT SOON U WILL BE HAPPY .OK BYE TAKE CARE
What you’re thinking about is not normal..It’s wrong. And besides, you really need to be spending time on writing proper sentences and your spelling.
Enjoy life…Get counseling and mostly prayer, you need a lot of prayer. We all need prayer.
It seems to be that you actually might be a lesbian, there is nothing wrong with that. It’s just how you feel! You should try going out with a girl and see how it goes. If all goes well and you feel that it is something you could do, then go for it! everything is hard at first. So you have to go out there and try because no one can tell you how you feel or who you are… Good Luck sweetie =)
Sounds to me like you haven’t met the man or woman who will clear that question up for you, yet!
You know – rather than try to put yourself in a box and stick a label on your head, I wonder if you can just carry on living your life until you meet that one person who makes you weak at the knees and clears the whole question up for you!!
Simply put, one day you will meet someone who you fall for and you will have no need to question anymore. You will simply be in love with that person.
However you find your life spanning out you should remember that, as long as the realtionship you have is between two consenting adults and you are not being hurt or manipulated in any way, then it doesn’t matter who you love – what their gender is, how they dress, where they come from, what their religious background is.
Good luck!!
Having an attraction to the same sex does not make you a les. or a creampuff! Most guys are such BOZOS I often think that if I were a born a girl I would not want to be associated with one. GIVE IT TIME. Mister right will show up. HOMO STUFF might me politically correct today…but it sure spreads a lot of disease!
baby i ‘m one so don’t feel bad and it not a bad thing not if that what u wnt inlife but if u wanna chat holla back