This guy that has been asking me out for months we met online on a dating site for straight people
Has an annoying lisp
When I asked him what he wanted to wear for Halloween. He replied he wanted to come dressed as one of the characters of abba with knee high boots and little shorts.
When he was in high school he told me that during weekends for fun his friends would “accidently” dress him as a woman where he would do a fashion show for them with high heels and all. I sais did this happen once? He said no a couple of times. When he was in the tolilet he said he saw some guy peeing or you could see his thing – he giggled like a girl would blush at seeing some guys winki. When he went out one of his gay friends pinched him on the butt, he giggle and gave them a mean stare but did not stay stop.
When I was organising my girls night out he said if I didn’t have any good numbers he said that he could put some stocking on and heels cause he has great legs.
He has very feminine manerings including when I lent him my bracelet he did not want to take it off and paraded it to me as if he was a girl.
He has told me that since he was a child people though he was gay and I also asked him if he was and he says “I’m not gay and only attacted to women!!”
This man has been persuing me asking me out for months and will not say no for an aswer. When I do agree to go out he wants to hold my hand and wants me to be his girlfriend. I said no.
But he spoils me rotten when we go out so its been hard to shake him off. He pays for EVERYTHING even when I say no.
I am confused cause he acts gay but says his not. Can anyone make sence of this????
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How do I find guys to date? I’m newly out and don’t have much experience in dating. I’m also not into the bar scene. i am pretty sure i am… bi at the very least I’m 19 years old. I just came out a month or so ago, to select persons. I didn’t know anyone who was gay, and had never ever told anyone prior or acted on it. I met a guy my age online, and we talk sometimes. I know I don’t “know” him, but I think he is attractive and seems to be genuine. He doesn’t give me a bunch of BS, like most other guys do. I like that he doesn’t start of conversations with “Do you have a webcam”, “wanna hook up”, or “I think I might love you”, like all the other creepers do. He confessed his love to me profusely, but since we live far from each other (adjacent countries) he said he can’t handle the distance and he won’t be with another man so he wants us to be “special friends” (he defines that as doing everything lovers do but without calling it love) and he will look for a woman. I see him online in a gay dating site everyday, where is he gonna get a woman there? Everytime I log onto my email I am shown pic’s of women online NOW. Well, I am a woman and I am not gay! I really am tired of this being thrown at me everytime I get online. Is this all people think about anymore? I’ve met a guy I’ve met through an online dating site and have moved in to his city a few months after we’ve begun talking VIA instant messaging. Hes a very sweet guy and I like him very much. We’ve made out and got intimate a few times. We hold hands in the car while we listen to music and hes open to displays of affection in private. However when we are in public, in front of his parents, or friends, he would only introduce me as a friend and would deflect my attempts to hold his hand. His friend is coming to town this week and he invited me to hang out with them, but I feel as if I do I’ll just be introduced only as his ‘friend’ which makes me feel a little hurt. Besides, I think it’ll be good for him to hang out with his budds cause hes been working so hard. I just know what to interpret from it and if I should continue with this relationship or take it serious if this is how it might be in the long term. I don’t want to force him out, its his choice. Feedback appreciated! |
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