Im 21, female, interested in women. But i’ve never dated any women before, I’d like to try now, step by step, via online for now as I can to to lesbians club etc. Kinda like be friends for now n see how it goes. What site would u recommend for me?
ok you’re gonna need all the info so here goes….
im 19 . i always fancied girls growing up. i made my barbie dolls have lesbian sex haha . i always watched lesbian shows and wondered what i really was. so i gave myself a deadline. by my 18th birthday i would decide what i was. i grew crushes on celebrities as a teen and even today on males and females. i always dated guys growing up as everyone else did and its not easy to find a girl if your pretty young . i fell in love deeply with one bf (now an ex) and still love him….i have also fallen in love with a friend of mine (female) who is straight and i would give anything to be with. i really love her inside and out, she is amazing . . . i was kissed by a girl once on the lips at a club as part of a game and have done so as a dare at a party once. and im sure i felt something……. ive had 2 gfs but not in person…only online. i loved both but obviously not anymore. ive been with a guy for 2 years now….im kinda off guys i like girls a lot more..but the guy im with now i truly love. i lost my virginity to him and i feel everything for him. romance, attraction,deep true love, sexual attraction,chemistry and just how we seem to fit together. i love him so much. but i cant stand any other guys. i love girls. i want a girl. i want to be with one so bad. also to see what i am . i came out as bi this year. or am i bi-curious since i don’t know the girl side….i have loved and wanted and been attracted to girls and the guy im with. i do not know what i am. am i bisexual, bi-curious, straight, or a lesbian who went straight for the one guy i love…… what the hell am i ??
**ive had more bfs than gfs but maybe just because everyone else was straight and i was unsure….. i have been in love with 2 guys and 2 girls. deeply anyway. gah im confused!
I feel a little lame posting this on Yahoo! Answers, but I feel like this is a great place, because there are real people out there to answer my questions, as opposed to researching it online.
I’m a girl. I’ve only ever hooked up with boys. I’ve only fallen in love [well, as much as a 16 year old is capable of loving] with boys.
But sometimes I feel as though I’m only straight, because that’s what’s expected of me. Does that make sense? I’ve always wanted to hook up with a girl, not just kiss or make out, but really try out a girl as I would with a guy, just to see if I’m actually bisexual. Like, I could picture myself with a female, dating one, and having sexual relations with one. I don’t think I’m straight, because I find myself having urges for girls.. or maybe I’m just curious? I really want to hook up with a girl, but I have a problem with doing so, because I feel like I’d be using the girl to answer my own questions. I think it’d be unfair to her. I’m not sure if that makes much sense, but I’m really confused as to what I should be doing. I think I’ll only know if I’d be willing to actually date a female once I am sure that I am truly sexually attracted to women.
Do I try a girl? Or do I continue pretending I’m completely straight with no curiosity and/or desires to be with a female?
I don’t know how to explain it. I also find lesbians really attractive [and I'm not trying to fetishize lesbians, just explaining how I feel. I'm not a pervert. I just believe strongly that two women coming together is one of the most special things in the world.] I think women are beautiful, and have better bodies than men, too. Women are attractive, sensual and truly extraordinary people.
I don’t know, can you offer some insight? I would truly appreciate it.
I have an ex that I dated on and off for a couple years. Last year she decided to go lesbian and shacked up with another girl. I didn’t hear from her in forever and not too long after that I met my girlfriend .
Now just recently this ex of mine has been coming online and talking to me. She told me that she’s “not as gay as [she] thought [she] was” and she’s been “craving cock lately”, and that she’s gonna break up with that girl and move out. She also taught herself to squirt a few months ago.
She’s always been a horny little pervert, so whenever she gets online we have little chats about sex and such.
Ever since she told me all that stuff above, I’ve had an almost overwhelming desire to nail her again.
I realize I still have feelings for this girl, but I don’t want to break up with my girlfriend for a shot at “possibly” getting in this ex’s pants. I’m wondering if I’m feeling that urge to “sow my wild oats” so to speak. I haven’t had very many sexual experiences which may be why
1) Avoid explaining to straight people how you came out the closet gay, they’ll only go into the closet and be dumbfounded once they come straight out.
2) Whoever don’t like the fact that you’re queer can kiss your butt, they really can. Especially if the person is cute.
3) Lesbians be cautious when fancying a beautiful woman because she might be a beautiful man in drag.
4) Effeminate gay males with feminine voices are to continue allowing unsuspecting straight men to flirt with them over the phone, straight men just love the sound of your voices.
5) Have your bestfriend watch your man but make sure you get another friend to watch that bestfriend around your man and get another friend to watch the other friend around your man because you never know which friend your boyfriend will end up cheating on you with.
6) When instant messaging with a man online make sure you ask him his penis size first before you ask his name, age and location.
7) Never let people see you sweat over being gay. That means keep all video tapes of you and your lovers having sex very well hidden.
 If you’re in the closet, turn on the light in the closet because you’d be surprise who might be in there with you.
9) On a two way street a gay man can’t turn straight but a bisexual man can come right behind him and go both ways
10) Never tell the truth when dating because no one is really interested in who you are anyways and won’t mind at all that you aren’t the person in the picture that you showed them online.
Ok, I am trying to find a new gf. But this time, I want to try and find one in my area. I live in SC and I am sort of having a difficult time finding a gf. I don’t go to regular school( I do online school) so meeting someone at school isnt an option. I just dont know where to meet other lesbians that are single. I am only 17, so I am definately not up for using dating services..
Does anyone have any idea how I can meet other lesbians ?
I met this girl online, because she was going out with the same guy i was going out with. so to get him back for playing me we pretend to be lesbian lovers ( she’s a lesbian) so a few weeks later she tells me she loves me and i thought well it can’t hurt to try it. so we did. and i fell for her, i’ve tried to let her go once already and 7 months later i start talking to her again. and everything is as it was before back to the i love you’s and stuff. we’ve had problems because i messed aorund with this other girl (online only) and she’s been a thorn in our relationship. My gf actually dated her while i was gone. so its a weird love triangle. anyways were suppose to be back now. But what bugs me is that what i told her was true i do care and trust her like no other person. But i have never seen her not even in pictures, we don’t even talk on the phone just online. Yet i feel such a strong connection to her. I know her like no other person. I’m i crazy?
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