Dating Question, Need Some Perspective Here!?

Ok so granted I have only went out twice with this guy and am not emotionally invested in him…however, I contacted him with a joke (we have not spoken since our date almost a week ago) to touch base.
So he tells me he is “in a weird spot right now” and that he is “questioning his sexuality.”
Ok seriously, wtf? WHY is he online dating? I really cannot help but think it is me and him being possibly gay is the only way to “get rid of me”..oh and I am PMSing so I am more insecure than usual :p
PLEASE, can someone tell me this has happened to them?
And men, why would you even date a female if you were unsure of your taste?

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10 Responses to “Dating Question, Need Some Perspective Here!?”


FillyLil November 27th, 2009 at 8:18 pm

Hey… I like your Icon!!
– Maybe you were his last straw… and he found out with you he couldn’t do it! Did you guys have sex? I would believe him- you have no reason not to!
~~ Just move on!

Happy-2 November 27th, 2009 at 8:18 pm

Of course I would date a female if I was unsure of my tastes! It took me a long time to realize I’m bisexual by preference. I married a woman, and I am happily married after 21 years of marriage — in all that time I never cheated on her with a man. She and I have a wonderful, intimate, loving, fulfilling, and sexual relationship. I don’t see how occasionally getting turned on by a penis negatively affects anything.

hotdog November 27th, 2009 at 8:18 pm

Just.. WOW?!
I haven’t had this happen before. And I’ve done the online dating thing a ton. Usually if men wanna cut you loose, they can just dust you online (don’t respond to email, don’t call, etc). It’s pretty easy to blow others off in cyberspace.
But this whole questioning-his-sexuality thing? That’s just messed up. I don’t know why one would be searching online if they’re ambiguous to start with.
Please be careful, there are plenty of fish in the sea, but also a lot of slimy eels!

justagir November 27th, 2009 at 8:18 pm

I agree with hotdog. I have done a ton of online dating too and I’ve never had that happen or heard of it happening. Maybe he wasn’t interested after your first date and he just couldn’t come up with anything better to say? Weird. Yea, most people don’t put up profiles on a dating site if they are unsure of their sexuality. I wouldn’t waste my time worrying about it though…….. onward and upward!

Jordan November 27th, 2009 at 8:18 pm

give him some time. tell him youll be
his friend, like a support system while
hes having this rough time.
and if he finds it was only curiosity
and hes straight, hell see how understanding
you are and that he can trust you.
and if he erally is gay, youll have made
a good friend in the process.

Gina S November 27th, 2009 at 8:18 pm

I was married to a man years ago that fooled around on me with other men…He was always confused I guess. At least you know before it goes any further. And if he made it up so what there is more fish in the sea.

John B November 27th, 2009 at 8:18 pm

At least he is honest and is willing to say he is questioning his sexuality … and he is trying …
having said that
dump him, that’s not what you are looking for

swarovski rhinestones November 27th, 2009 at 8:18 pm

Dating questions go in the dating category.

Get Your Dose Of Mickateen November 27th, 2009 at 8:18 pm

YOu must so hot…….he just went gay

Crysteen November 27th, 2009 at 8:18 pm

Well i have done online dating my self that is. Well to me it sounds that well he is trying to find away out. Well trying to make a excuse.
Something i would try doing that is . well i know that you are having a hard time right now but well try to support him an well go about helping him though this time and see what happens though. An try to get the truth out .
Maybe he is just trying to express things and well want to see someone else and well did not want to hurt you so he said that he should have been a bit more honest if that was the issue but .still…..
Well give it time and well i mean just try to see and give time and well move on a little go out with some friend meet up with someone else see what he feels about that .Maybe he is trying to test you to . to see what you really mean to him or he means to you and well see what you do about it .
God bless you An hope that everything works out for you.



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