Comments on: Do I Wait For The Man Or Move On? http://onlinedatingblog.org/do-i-wait-for-the-man-or-move-on/ Online Dating Made Easy Sun, 12 Feb 2012 19:59:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: usb turntable reviews http://onlinedatingblog.org/do-i-wait-for-the-man-or-move-on/comment-page-1/#comment-11430 usb turntable reviews Mon, 06 Jun 2011 22:18:37 +0000 http://onlinedatingblog.org/do-i-wait-for-the-man-or-move-on/#comment-11430 Amazing! This blog looks just like my old one! It's on a completely different topic but it has pretty much the same page layout and design. Outstanding choice of colors! Amazing! This blog looks just like my old one! It’s on a completely different topic but it has pretty much the same page layout and design. Outstanding choice of colors!

]]> By: Dennis Miedema http://onlinedatingblog.org/do-i-wait-for-the-man-or-move-on/comment-page-1/#comment-10988 Dennis Miedema Sat, 03 Apr 2010 14:22:34 +0000 http://onlinedatingblog.org/do-i-wait-for-the-man-or-move-on/#comment-10988 As a dating coach, let me give my 2 cents here. 1) Is it wrong of you to flirt with other men while you're very much interested in guy XYZ? No. In fact, men and women in couples and in marriages flirt. It's actually quite healthy: it creates sexual tension, but at the end of the day you go home and release that tension (in a good way) on your partner. Flirting doesn't equal cheating on... So, even if you two would be a "thing", it STILL wouldn't be a problem. 2) Is it wrong of you to see whether you can meet another guy or not because guy XYZ has some issues he needs to deal with? Again, no. You're not in a relationship. In fact, the single biggest mistake men make when it comes to relationships is... Entering a relationship with a woman who has emotional bagage. Bagage as in: her ex cheated on her, she's grieving, she's despressed, afraid of commitment, etc. Because guess who will experience the consequences? YOU, if you date a guy who has issues... he'll take them out on you. That's what people do whenever they've got isues: they go and seek comfort with the people that are most important to them. You don't want to start a rescue-saver relationship like that, because it will give you a world of trouble. Move on. Your choice: you can keep the door open for when he's back, but be sure to tell him that you don't want a man with bagage. To More Dating Success, Dennis Miedema Win With Women As a dating coach, let me give my 2 cents here.

1) Is it wrong of you to flirt with other men while you’re very much interested in guy XYZ?

No. In fact, men and women in couples and in marriages flirt. It’s actually quite healthy: it creates sexual tension, but at the end of the day you go home and release that tension (in a good way) on your partner.

Flirting doesn’t equal cheating on…

So, even if you two would be a “thing”, it STILL wouldn’t be a problem.

2) Is it wrong of you to see whether you can meet another guy or not because guy XYZ has some issues he needs to deal with?

Again, no. You’re not in a relationship. In fact, the single biggest mistake men make when it comes to relationships is…

Entering a relationship with a woman who has emotional bagage. Bagage as in: her ex cheated on her, she’s grieving, she’s despressed, afraid of commitment, etc.

Because guess who will experience the consequences? YOU, if you date a guy who has issues… he’ll take them out on you.

That’s what people do whenever they’ve got isues: they go and seek comfort with the people that are most important to them.

You don’t want to start a rescue-saver relationship like that, because it will give you a world of trouble.

Move on. Your choice: you can keep the door open for when he’s back, but be sure to tell him that you don’t want a man with bagage.

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

]]> By: *sexy mocha* http://onlinedatingblog.org/do-i-wait-for-the-man-or-move-on/comment-page-1/#comment-1199 *sexy mocha* Sat, 01 Aug 2009 03:14:43 +0000 http://onlinedatingblog.org/do-i-wait-for-the-man-or-move-on/#comment-1199 Your not in a actual relationship with him I would keep my options open and continue to talk to other people. I would not wait for him, he will call or email when he gets a chance Your not in a actual relationship with him I would keep my options open and continue to talk to other people. I would not wait for him, he will call or email when he gets a chance

]]> By: schuscht http://onlinedatingblog.org/do-i-wait-for-the-man-or-move-on/comment-page-1/#comment-1200 schuscht Sat, 01 Aug 2009 03:14:43 +0000 http://onlinedatingblog.org/do-i-wait-for-the-man-or-move-on/#comment-1200 I think it is worth to wait ! ! ! what's the rush? anyway I think it is worth to wait ! ! ! what’s the rush? anyway

]]> By: EllenLou http://onlinedatingblog.org/do-i-wait-for-the-man-or-move-on/comment-page-1/#comment-1201 EllenLou Sat, 01 Aug 2009 03:14:43 +0000 http://onlinedatingblog.org/do-i-wait-for-the-man-or-move-on/#comment-1201 If you are single don't stop responding to others who may interest you. Who knows..it might be the one you talked to on Sunday. The guy with the dark hair and blue eyes. Yes, he is the one. If you are single don’t stop responding to others who may interest you. Who knows..it might be the one you talked to on Sunday. The guy with the dark hair and blue eyes. Yes, he is the one.

]]> By: INDRAG? http://onlinedatingblog.org/do-i-wait-for-the-man-or-move-on/comment-page-1/#comment-1197 INDRAG? Sat, 01 Aug 2009 03:14:42 +0000 http://onlinedatingblog.org/do-i-wait-for-the-man-or-move-on/#comment-1197 NEVER wait on a man. I know you feel bad about his mother, but that is his family problem that he has to deal with. Keep him on 'the back burner', and go have fun. You have no obligations to anyone right now. NEVER wait on a man. I know you feel bad about his mother, but that is his family problem that he has to deal with. Keep him on ‘the back burner’, and go have fun. You have no obligations to anyone right now.

]]> By: Picture Collage http://onlinedatingblog.org/do-i-wait-for-the-man-or-move-on/comment-page-1/#comment-1198 Picture Collage Sat, 01 Aug 2009 03:14:42 +0000 http://onlinedatingblog.org/do-i-wait-for-the-man-or-move-on/#comment-1198 It sounds like you two do not have a devoted, committed relationship as of yet, and that you are just talking, getting to know each other. You haven't even met from what I could tell by your question. This means that you are free to talk to or see anyone that you want in the meantime. If you think you've got a good thing going with him, and you think that he feels the same way, then you may want to just not talk with other people (if you think it would upset him). I don't think you are being selfish by any means, again you two haven't promised each other any relationship of any kind as of yet. Have you tried dropping him an e-mail, and letting him know that you are there for him to talk, listen to him if he needs someone to vent, or to just be a shoulder to cry on? It sounds like the situation he's going thru could be a tough one, and I bet he would really appreciate knowing he has your support. As for him not spending all of his time with you, that part, I do think you are being selfish about. Family comes first, and he's not in a committed relationship with you as of yet, so he definately has every right to put his family before you. It sounds like you two do not have a devoted, committed relationship as of yet, and that you are just talking, getting to know each other. You haven’t even met from what I could tell by your question. This means that you are free to talk to or see anyone that you want in the meantime. If you think you’ve got a good thing going with him, and you think that he feels the same way, then you may want to just not talk with other people (if you think it would upset him). I don’t think you are being selfish by any means, again you two haven’t promised each other any relationship of any kind as of yet.
Have you tried dropping him an e-mail, and letting him know that you are there for him to talk, listen to him if he needs someone to vent, or to just be a shoulder to cry on? It sounds like the situation he’s going thru could be a tough one, and I bet he would really appreciate knowing he has your support. As for him not spending all of his time with you, that part, I do think you are being selfish about. Family comes first, and he’s not in a committed relationship with you as of yet, so he definately has every right to put his family before you.

]]> By: Make Money Online http://onlinedatingblog.org/do-i-wait-for-the-man-or-move-on/comment-page-1/#comment-1196 Make Money Online Sat, 01 Aug 2009 03:14:41 +0000 http://onlinedatingblog.org/do-i-wait-for-the-man-or-move-on/#comment-1196 If you want a life,Move On !! If you want a life,Move On !!

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