http://www.manhunt.net/showpic.php?showuid=1935695&i=1&unique=MH_464dc617c8dec
My picture!
Just a few years ago I realized I was gay. I always heard stories how gay men are nice, out going and smart.
Well to this point, I have yet to see it. Every gay male I met either online or offline just went SEX. If you don’t have the baby face porn look they will not give you the time or place.
I am just not a looking gay male and nobody wants to date me or make love to me- as nobody will give me the chance 
I live in Western MA(The Berkshires). I wish I could find someone to help me fix the way I look. I am not happy with my life at all! This goes back to my days in both highschool and college. I was picked on for way I looked.
I’ve tried losing weight and did so. Went from 245 lbs down to 179 lbs in 9 months.
I will tell you something. My fiancee is bi-sexual. I know I am a woman, and you really aren’t looking for an answer from a woman. But my fiancee thought the same thing. He hates the way he looks, and since he is different, he never thought he would find someone to love him for him. I LOVE HIM for who he is. And that is honest. I do not look at men for their looks. He is still insecure, because I get hit on all the time. And he has seen some of my past relationships. ( I used to date mostly athletes). But I fell in love with him, and I have never been happier. In fact him being bi-sexual, I have learned is a huge turn on for me. We have a great sex life, because we can experiment and do things most straight men won’t do. If you would like I will even send you our pics, so you can see the difference. He feels like I am beauty and he is the beast. But when I look at him, all I know is I love him more than anything in this whole world. I love who he is, not what he looks like. Someone will appreciate who you are for you. You wouldn’t want to be with someone, if they were with you based on your looks. There has to be something else. Or what happens when the looks start to fade??? Please don’t give up, because people fall in love all the time. He never had alot of luck with either sex, and now he ended up with me. He still tells me all the time how lucky he is. And how I deserve someone better. In my heart there will never be anyone better, I don’t care what they look like.
I hope I helped you feel a little bit better.
Please feel free to email me and he would be happy to talk to you, coming from the same position you are in.
Good Luck.
Try Contacts, Stay Shaved, or maybe a new hair style, you got short enough to Gel it into a Spiked Style.
Was there a question in there somewhere?
Well, in any case you should probably know that the first thing MOST men think about whether they’re straight or gay is sex. This is the way they are, always have been and probably always will be. Just like for anyone else, it takes time and patience to find the person you want to be with. I don’t know why you imagine it would be any different for you.
Most gay men are not promiscuous because they are ‘gay’ – but they are promiscuous because they are ‘men’. Many heterosexual men would sleep with as many women as they could – if only the women would let them.
So its best to get the notion out of your head that gay men are less likely to be relationship material.
But as with most things, good things come to them that wait.
When advertising yourself on Internet dating sites, make sure that you make your profile as interesting as possible with all the information of your likes, hobbies etc – and make it perfectly clear that your advert is not about looking for sex. There are good, kind, intelligent, articulate gay men out there that want the same thing as you.
Stay positive and good luck!
Dude, looked at the pic, you’re cute, I love a square jawline. In all honesty, manhunt is not the site for you to find friendship. That site is solely there for hookups. There are a lot of other sites, if that’s the course you want to follow. Try yahoo personals, or gay.com. They are out there, now you just have to get out there and find them. A little self confidence goes a long way. You’ve lost weight, and you’re just as cute as you can be. Hold your head up and walk, talk, and act like you are the most self confident guy in the world, that really attracts men. Believe me, I know.
Sex is a big part of relationships but not the only thing. Stay strong and eventually you will meet someone who likes you for who you are and teh love you can give. Good luck,bro.
You just haven’t met the right person. I haven’t looked at your picture, but love comes when you least expect it.
i didn’t go look at your pic as i seldom do what i’m told by ppl i meet online. sorry. as for your question there seems to be a major contradiction. you say every gay male you’ve met both on and off line just wants sex (sorry, that should have been, SEX) then you say nobody will date you or make love to you. they won’t give you the chance. hmmm? if you truly are gay and meeting that ‘special’ someone is your concern, then you’ll just need to get out more often to more varied places, you’ll meet them. but not unlike the fairie tale, before you find your prince you’ll have to kiss many frogs (and many other things! lol!!) i haven’t found mine yet, but i’m not gonna stop looking! lol!!
Get the **** off of this website if you are Gay. You are going to hell. God don’t like people like you.
All I have to say is stay strong.
As for the online sites, check out Amicurious.com. They are different from what you have experienced. I think you might be happy with them.
Good Luck!
“God don’t like people like you,” eh Joshua G?
What a creep you are.
And probably closeted.
And yearning for a boy.
I feel sorry for you, so worried about everyone else.
How’s it feel to be pitied?