I’m 16 years old and i’ve never even kissed a guy or done anything w/ one whatsover, I don’t like any of the guys in my school there all really efeminent and it does not attract me at all. I’m really popular in my class and most people think i’m cool even though they all know i’m gay. The one dude I had a crush on all year last year rejected me (still not sure if he’s gay), people tell me i’m good looking I think i am when I look in the mirror. I DO NOT WANT TO DATE ONLINE OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT. I just want to meet some guys who are not effeminent that live near me and are cool. I get made fun of by this one gay dude (whose a flamer) all the time because he apparently has already had sex w/ over 50 guys (he’s only 17 I know gross right) and he is always making fun of me (bc i know deep down inside he likes me and he’s mad bc I won’t do anything w/ him). I only talk to one gay person and al the other gay guys i talk to I don’t get along w/ him bc we don’t have the same interests, and
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haha… I’m really sorry to have laughed because i know its torture from your side of the bridge, but your confusion is really funny. I don’t know, its just the way you talk. Here’s the thing, your philosophy is A LOT like mine. I’m guessing that is why its easy for me to laugh, because its like im laughing at myself or something.
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-I wouldn’t listen to a gigolo, they can just go contract an std or something
-I never understand why people like effeminate men. I think its disgusting.This is especially for metrosexuals because they are clearly high maintenance. I’m bi, so i always think.. if i was looking for a “feminine” person, why wouldn’t i just go for a “female”???
- don’t feel ashamed about having free hook-ups. love, sex, making love are all different.
- people don’t think I’m gay either. its ridiculous. I dislike guys who carry themselves in a girly manner. I think its odd so I act like how i think a guy would naturally act.
- to me, sexual orientation is not about acting like male or female but more about which gender makes you hot.
-i have an odd attraction to ghetto people.
-i know what you mean about the straight thing. It is unfair. I live in a city/county in new England. There is no one.I keep falling for straight guys, because i refuse to go for the effeminate guys. Don’t worry, I’m assuming college soon? You’ll meet tons of people. Life is probably completely different, especially the people. They are more diverse. I’m 16 years old too, and confident in what i want and I’m waiting to see how it works out. I guess thats what we have to do in the end. I went on vacation, partly to see if there are more people that fits what i am looking for. I saw a 22 year-old, young security guard who was as hot as the state i was in, who i think was flirting with me heavily. It wasn’t like gay talk, it was like if i came close he would whistle, or walk away timidly, he even tried talking to me. If i was looking through the corner of my eye he would look at me and smile. If i looked directly at him he would look away. There were many other instances with different people which is weird because i believe in love and corny **** and whatever ( im very selective). I was also trying to have fun with life.
- besides all that hormonal stuff, about being gay, I want to know if the world, universe, galaxies holds what I’m looking for (personally) and if ill ever find it.
- i know what its like to deal with daft idiots as friends
- by the by, im honest, so i think I’m good looking
don’t wish you were something you can’t be.
you are still young and there is plenty of time to find that one guy who makes you complete. and just be out going! and dont hold back life goes on as they say. hang places were there are a lot of ppl to choose from. concerts, the city, all age clubs places like that.
If a water can be turned into wine… why can’t you who really is a CREATED MAN. If there’s a will, there is a way. Everybody can change their personality depending on his/her desire. But each desire has an equal responsibility to face.
Just go looking honey, all I can tell you. You should try dating some of the guys at your school, just because they seem effeminate doesn’t mean they actually are deep down.
don;t be gay.http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
if your in albuqueurqe new mexico,
hit me up
i dont dicriminate no one gay or not but this is funny im not gonna lie.
im 16 if you wanna chat
you are only 16…what is the rush…enjoy your time being young with no cares in the world…you will soon grow up and be out in the big bad world and realize just how cruel people are..but I know that is not what you want to hear so if you stop looking that is usually when someone will find you…good luck and have fun
Ha…sounds like my town. All the gay guys are either total whores, or really really feminine.
I don’t know about all gay guys, but I know I went through a bit of time when I just longed to be straight. But it’s not going to happen.
Just go through life right now, then when you can, get the hell out of town. Move to some uber-big city. There are guys that aren’t femmy. They’re few and far between, but they exist.
In fact, a lot of thought I was lying when I came out. They said I wasn’t gay enough to be gay…
And there’s really no way to suddenly become attracted to these feminine guys. I’m not. Like I said, just plan to move to like Las Vegas or New York whenever you get the chance.
Anyway…don’t know what else to say…
You will never know what it’s like to be straight, stop fretting, i havee the exact same problem but you never know where any gay guys, do you think people expected you were gay before you came out. Many people (including me0 feel pressured to come out in the school environment as they know what high school kids will do to them so we can only really tell who the flamers are. Stop worrying if you keep looking you will find a guy.
I sympathies with you, my friend. it is hard to find gay teens your age, close to were you live to date, and go to the mall or just to be around, I think you are stressing over this to much though (I know I did).
I have some friends that are strait, that have had some very bad relationships say “I wish I was gay”. all I can say is it is not easy on either side “of the rainbow” as you put it. just be your self and let the other stuff happen when the time is right for you. OK?
be patient. there are so many average gay gusy in your world you would be surprised. problem is they are not making themselves obvious. thus all you see are the ones who are more demonstrative fo their sexual orientation. but if you keep an open mind and continue meeting people and making lots of friends the average guys who are gay will gradually emerge amongst your friends. The guys you seek are there, you just need to allow yrouself to find them.
You sound kinda self centered.
ANYWAY you know you can’t change so your gonna have to deal. :/
btw, what is the question?
Why do you call this guy your friend if he is really gross and pisses you off?
First you must accept what you are, and I read that you are on the fence post!!! A companion is as hard to find as a true
friend!! They are out there, but you must take your time and
look long and hard!!! Once you have made a choice you must be faithful and true… Good Luck With Your Choices!!