I met this guy on the internet. He seems like a awesome guy. Well..more like EVERYTHING i always wanted… But theres one problemo… Im a Christian & he is Buddhist. He says he still believes in God tho. I dont know how that works…lol But i geuss it does. So yea we talked online and he brought up the topic about dating. I told him i wanted to wait till im older. He said ok ill wait for you. Then i thought about it and told him that he shouldent wait because i wanna start to date in 3 years. What if something doesnt work out? It would just be a waste for him to wait for me for so long. But he didnt understand. He thought i just wanted to get rid of him.Then he said he wants us both to “reserve” ourselfs and dont date anyone for now. untill i want to start dating.i told him lets not do it. he got mad alittle. he said he trusted me… Now he emailed me & said like sorry. & i dont know what to do.
Should i end it with this guy? Or “reserve” myself for him and date him in like 3 years??
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I think you really need to pray about this relationship. You both have very different views even if he does say he believes in God. If you aren’t ready to date then just be friends. If he is willing to wait for you for three years then let him but don’t act like his girlfriend and don’t treat him like a boyfriend. Just be friends. If in three years you still feel the same way or your feelings got stronger then you have your answer. For now just take it slowly and be friends. Time will tell.
So what would you do for the next 3 years?? Live in a convent, or show off your best SHADOW DANCING moves at the prom?? I am 47 and mother. This guy is ALREADY trying to CONTROL you into doing what HE thinks is right. You told him something he didnt want to hear on the internet ….ON THE INTERNET!!!! and he GETS MAD??!!! YOu better stop and think this through. If he ALREADY is getting mad at you and telling you what HE wants you to do, can you begin to imagine what he would be like IN PERSON?? Girl you should RUN, not walk, away from this? He sounds like a muslim, is he from egypt or the middle east somewheres?? If he is then I could write you a BOOK about why you should say Good Bye!! Good Luck!!!
pervs work hard to sound like what people want..stop and change your address he could be a menace to you and your family…Buddhist don’t act like that
If you and him have true feelings,then go for it.
END IT IMMEADTELY!! HE’S PROBALLY READING THIS!! Oh by the way, how long have yall know eachother??
Don’t waste your time find a decent guy in person internet is not where to find Mr Right.
Natasha:
I would say just end it, Although he says he wants to save himself for you , He still seems kind of weird.
If you end it now and it was made to be, You 2 will meet again in the future.
I hope everything works out for you.
Chris
Omg! Why dnt u ask him to put a pic up. Dnt wait for him u havent even met him yet and ppl are different in person. how old r u any way ?
umm..
have you ever met this guy in person ?
if not, then end it.
do not let this go any further…..do not trust the internet ot meet ….you do not knowthat this guy is not some sick-o…..keep safe and be smart!!!!!!!!
don’t do it natasha.
yes you should wait and you should look at freezing some of your eggs to
well if it was me i would end it the internet is not a safe place to meet someone. the person you are talking to could be a sick perv.
end it. as your sister in christ im telling you these realtionships dont work out.
Hi,
well Please meet him in person if possible before taking a decision…. because people over the net are not that real
Cheers
Umm…..sory,but are you willing to give up 3 years for a complicated romance?But if you think it’s worth it…
Oh god I’m so confused……
End it with him you met him on the internet get real for all you know he is 49
never date someone from the interent!! VERY DANGEROUSSS
first of all how old are you and if you are old enough you can date and love anybody you want regardless of religion but the choice is all yours
sounds kinda creppy to me i would just forget him honestly move on and he might seem awsome but u don’t really know him.
You should not trust anyone on the internet, no matter how innocent it sounds, it can be dangerous…And the whole religion thing…Every God is the same…we all just call him/her by a different name…I’m Christian too.
Don’t worry about dating and his replies and just have a talk…when it comes to the point where you WANT to date him or anyone else than face it than because there is no reason to take on future problems when you don’t know what you will think or feel by that time
well hun i dont think you should resolve yourself for anyone and specially not for a guy that you met on the internet,not saying there is anything wrong with that as many people met there soulmates online and live very happy,i just think you should look for something more stable,i mean you already have doubts in some areas,but what the heart wants and all that so i would say if you really really deep down want this guy then you can sort any problem and if you are willing to wait then i say god bless,personally i wouldnt put my life on hold either. i hope you make the right choice as only you can and i wish you happiness
Internet?
Um, end it.
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First of all, cross faith dating is not a good idea. Never has been, never will. As for reserving yourself, bad idea. One should never reserve itself without knowing whether or not the person their waiting for is the right one.
gurl wat is yo problem dont wait! yu dont even knoe him so why would yu sit there nd wait for him like that! also if he did trust yu then he would have known that yu aint tryna get rid of him! nd wat if he really aint wat yu thought!?
end it
3 years is a pretty long time i think you should go with him sooner, unless you’re like…7 or something…………. about the religion part, maybe your side of the family could dress in christian clothes at the wedding and his could dress in buddhist clothes?
truthfully, I wouldn’t. I know that the internet is the big thing when it comes to meeting guys but I got a weird vibe reading what he told you. I mean are you waiting till you’re 18 to date or after college? and if you are a minor is he considered an adult? Why is he so willing to wait three years? let us know more when you figure it out though.
I think that postpone a dating in 3 years is wrong. Does a man can wait 3 years? Are you sure that he can wait?