ok, so I’m 19 and I find myself having a really difficult time meeting other gay guys. I’m not really into the gay scene nor do I “act gay” or give off much of a gay presence. I can’t seem to pick up on who is gay or not (no gaydar here). How do I go about minding other gay guys like me and how do I go about approaching them? I don’t want to go up and hit on a straight guy or anything like that. And at my school we don’t really have a great good organizations, only the ones that want to get laid go there. I tried the online thing, but haven’t had much luck nor really want to start a relationship through the internet. I think that’s it. Please help.
The same way any person courts(such and under used word) another person. Spend time getting to know them. This will give you an impression of their sexual orientation. if they are straight hey you made a new friend. When you have found the right one just be confident and yourself.
Well… I don’t know much about how to find a target, but about approaching one, I’d get a portable boom box of sorts, put some party music into it, put on some pink speedos, and start partying very close to your target.