I want to date a boy, but mostly online so I can be safe.
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You can meet people online and get to know them, but you cannot “date” someone online.
If you go looking for a boyfriend online, the chances of you finding a sleazy game playing sonovabitch are much greater. Go out and meet people and let a decent gay guy find YOU.
You can e-mail Samuel Parker, your friend, and he will give you real good advice.
I agree with Jewel_Mayhew. Let me tell you, for a while I looked for guys on MySpace (and various other sites), but I just couldn’t find the one I was looking for. You know why? Because they were idiots, and only added me to their friend list for popularity reasons. Don’t go looking for people online. You’ll more likely end up with a loser than a guy you are looking for. So get outside and look for people there! That’s what I’m doing when I go back to school in a few days.
Good luck, dude. I really know how you feel, trust me.
gay.com or outinamerica.com
you can set up a profile and look for guys your own age or around.
Also Myspace has a lot of younger guys that are already comfortable being out or being gay. You can also join an online group in myspace for young men questioning themselves and possibly find someone who digs you like you dig them…
online dating to be safe? sometimes its worse online than in the real world….
Well, you can’t run away from the real world forever. I do understand your point – I have a lot of people I talk to in MySpace who I’m just “using” (oh man, it’s an ugly word…) to know more about my feelings and sexuality. But I know that if I really want to date someone, it’ll have to be in the real world.
Let lightning strike you, cause if it strikes your computer all you’ll have is burnt fuse…
Yes, I agree that the real world is the place to do it. From what I have seen, most gay boys hook up for sex first. Dating is for those interested in longer term thing and actually is harder to do sometimes because it is public. I am bi but I have had experiences with gays. It happens like this:
I look at them and see some eye contact, then I look down. Then I look up again and see if they were looking at me, but very briefly as not to embarrass them. Then I make a move to walk away but soon turn back and walk over to him not staring too much and say, a little softly, “High, my name’s David.” If he tells me his name then I know for sure he likes me. Then comes the most important part and that is the place. None of this means anything if neither person has an available, private place where they won’t be disturbed. This really has to be thought out in advance or you’d better be really quick on you feet. If You have that figured out, it’s so much easier; you can proceed with confidence. Say. like, “where should we go?” Then suggestions come up and you go.
P.S. I would like to say that I have found that Gay/Bi relationships do not work out in the long term and the Gay is the one who gets his feelings hurt. Since I learned this for myself I do not seek these relationships, although once in a rare while something comes up.