There are obviously many ways to get relationships, like online dating or dancing clubs etc, but those aren’t my things..
Online dating seems awkward, and those gay bars seem to usually have those gays that mince around.. I would want a strong mature man, who doesn’t have a lisp (sorry lisp’s annoy me).
How do I find people? I’m not openly gay (and I am currently too afraid to be openly gay) and what are the chances that I will find a gay hunky man that likes me even though I haven’t told him I’m gay, and I also like him? Any hints are helpful and thanks :]

THIS GIRL IS SO PRETTY OMG:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0X_qm-7Xo…
first things first; there is not necessarily a correlation between whether a guy has a lisp, and whether or not he is masculine or “strong” and “mature”.
secondly; if you don’t want to go to gay bars or online dating, you really have one of two options. you could, after confiding in a close friend about your sexuality, ask them if they have any friends that they think you may be compatible with, and they can introduce you. your other option is to wait around for someone to come into your life unexpectedly. and for all you know, one of your male friends could be gay or bi and you don’t even know.
but admitting to others that you are gay will lead to more opportunities to meeting people.
Fine, don’t be openly gay. Try a leather bar, or look past the disco boys at the clubs to find what you want. But, I don’t think you are gay. Otherwise you would know that gay men do not have a lisp. Do you, Mr. Not Openly Gay? No lisp? I rest my case.
Auntie Kookoo
Here is one thing if you dont have porn star looks and a porn star dick you are out of luck becuase gay men only wants those and if you are not hot like a porn star you are dead to other gay men believe me I have tried
ok i just want to say one thing, dont listen to misu, he’s going through a tough time right now http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind…
anyway, try online dating, its anonymous, and safe so its a good way to go.
I can help you get a straight boyfriend?
Rape is the only solution.