There’s a friend of mine who’s a lesbian, but she hasn’t come out to everyone yet….just me. She’s been dating this girl online for almost a year now and it’s never really been good. She always comes to me to talk about her relationship problems since I’m the only one who knows. Well now they’re trying to decide if they’re going to break up…and I think they should because this girl just seems to playing games with my friend. My friend has texted me everyday for the past 2 weeks about this because she doesn’t know what to do….I’m getting so tired of talking about it because it’s the same thing over and over again. She just texted me about it and i pretty much told her i don’t want to talk about it anymore. Is that being mean of me???
Whenever I tried talking to her about my relationship problems, she would always say “I don’t like him, dump him”
Plus every knows she’s a lesbian, they’re just waiting for her to admit it….so really she could talk to others about this!
Understand. And Just don’t worry about it.
That’s not mean at all to me.
Good Luck =]
I think you should try to put her shoes on you. Reason with her.
No, i don’t think your being a bad friend but you have to explain why you told her that, tell her how you feel about her relationship and tell her how you feel about being the only one to know her secret and that its OKay to let other people know, i mean those who are close.
Maybe she really isnt a real lesbian cause she doesnt want to come out and actually say it…and she obviously doesnt want to deal with your problems when you have been trying all this time to help her w/ hers sooo she is the one that actually is being a bad friend