I have my husband with 2 sons, but I feel unhappiness because I found I was in fact a lesbian after I lived with my husband for 4 years . To find my true love, I join one great lesbian dating club http://www.ldate.com/i/b and incredible that I found my soul mate about one month later. She also love me very much. We had a great online chat and I could not wait to have a chat with her face to face. After having a face to face chat with her, she said she could not live without me, she wanted me to marry her asap. I also would like to marry her, but should I desert my husband and two sons? Please tell me how to deal with the problem, I am really in a bad mood and do not know how to do.
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I Love Lesbian, But I Have Trouble, Any Suggestion?6 comments to I Love Lesbian, But I Have Trouble, Any Suggestion? |
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You shoud stick with your family.
Oh, wow, what an idiot.
er,what do you mean this isn’t the science section?
You need to think very carefully. Once you have children thats it all your needs come second. You need to stop being selfish and do everything you can not to destroy your kids life.
loads of people are in unhappy relationships but stick to it for the sake of their children. Stop chatting to this person your in love with and instead put all your love, attention and energy into your children otherwise you will regret it.
Or wait until your kids are grown up and can lead their own lives and then get into a lesbian relationship.
Think about all the people you will be hurting now…your kids, husband, family. But if you stay with your husband the only person you will be hurting is YOU
IF you want to choose that life style fine. But don’t ever desert your children what kind of mother would ever think of that.
Lisa it is wrong to live a lie and it will be cruel to both you and your husband to carry on doing so as neither of you will be happy.so you have to do what you think is the right thing.yes your husband will be hurt for a while but in time he will find some one else.I had a freind that was in the same situation that you are in now and i told her to explain how she felt to her husband .now both of them are freinds and she is living with the person she loves .their is no right or wrong in these situations as god made you the way you are.But make sure that you reasure the children of you love and many of the same sexed couples are granted custody of the children but let your husband have free access as it is just as important that they have their daddy as it is for them to have you.try and stay freinds with their father for their sakes as much as for your own.