I met this girl in an online dating site abt a month ago…and did go for dinner yesterday
After that she didnt call me neither did I.
I am a simple guy…I dnt like to spend money.. I drive an old car, living in a simple apt.
On the other hand she drives brand new BMW, Lives in a big house! She looks amazing…I really mean it !
I am pretty sure she can find much better guys but she looks she is genuinely interested in me…..However she is v caring, friendly and fun loving person. She says she finds happiness in simple things..but I dnt know what her definition of ‘simplicity’ is….Other than this she is a wonderful match to me
Do you think this will work ?
I certainly dnt want to hurt her and hurt myself once I am committed…..I dnt wanna get a divorce ever..
Any thoughts on inter-racial marriages? Should I call her? Also I am a virgin will that be an issue…Should I tell her? Would she be embarrassed by that?( I hinted her I never had a GF very first week)
( I am East-Indian 28 I am living in US more than 8 yrs, she is 25 white American. We both are working professionals)
My sincere thanks.. your suggestions means a lot to me. Thanks again!
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My friend, my advice to you is that she is not really attracted to you. You seem like a desperate nervous type of guy and she saw it during the dinner. She got turned off some how, some way. I’m also a minority and I have dated MANY White ladies in my life. Probably just like you the ladies I’ve dated are professionals. One advice I would give you is LIQUOR, LIQUOR, and LIQUOR. White girls’ kryptonite is any alcoholic beverage. They get a sip and they get in the mood for love making. Maybe it’s in their genes. Offer them a glass of their favorite alcoholic drink, listen to them, and smile. They will melt on you. Then take them to your simple apt and show them the virgin Karma Sutra. Just concentrate on not premature ejaculatiing because the White girls will do everything. Also, treat them like hookers and you shall be ok. They like getting spanked and their hair pulled.
I dont see anything wrong with it.
You shouldn just ignore if people say anything because people are ignorant.
I think it will work out if you guys are happy with eachother and get along really well.
First off… relax. U just met her… marriage should be the furtherest thing on your mind right now. First get to know her & let her get to know u.
If you just be yourself, dont your about her liking the simple things. Just be your self and everything should work out.
Keep yo sex life private. Even if you haven’t had a sex life. If you do get some… you can always use your virginity as the reason that the event didnt last so long.
The not calling after a date is like an American tradition. We don’t the person to think we are into tham to much… it a pre-caution so you dont scare the person away. U don’t want to come across as a stalker.
The interacial thing is not a big deal. If you are open minded to new cutlural things & she is… it shouldn’t be a problem. Considering she dated you it appears that she is open minded.