I don’t have much trouble meeting women just walking around, I’m only 21 years old, Im good looking and confident, but I’ve tried dating sites in the past, free ones, to see if I could meet more women, and they all have been incredibly lame to me. On this new site, I’ve sent literally 20 girls messages, how many replied back to me? Zero. My question is, as a guy, should I pretty much give up on using dating sites, they seem to be just for hot women to get their jollies from all the attention that horny guys throw on them, but they never actually will go out with any of them, they just like being fought over and told how hot they are. Girls NEVER message me on these sites. These sites only seem to be good for a guy if you’re gay. Has anyone had similar experiences to me?
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If you really are that goodlooking, you will get messages from girls. I signed up for hotornot, was rated a 9 after 500+ votes and got a bunch of doublematches. Online dating sites arent that bad but it is much better to go out in person to find a chick.
Sorry, I had to laugh at how you described you situation.
Dude, if you don’t have trouble meeting women walking around, then just do that and stick with it.
Actually, online dating site works. But not all dating sites will be helpful.
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Well. You have to look for girls in popular dating sites. for example If you want to Paid dating service then you should try “Lava Life” http://www.lavalife.com. If you want a Free dating service then try “Kiss U Kiss” http://www.kissukiss.com .
I think dating is kinda’ lame PERIOD….. There are all kinds of attention wh-r-s around whether it be in person or online. You just have to bust their pedistals down every once in a while and let them know you have a backbone or two.
My son did the same thing… so I investigated a couple and found out that many of these sights are just a couple of girls with different addresses… they are trying to get guys to pay for more addresses.. many are a scam.
It all depends what you are looking for. You have to find the right site to suit your needs. Maybe you should vent online about it at http://www.MeJab.com or go to http://www.OneRush.com if you want something new. I like them.
meet women the real way.
all those sites suck. I dont know how to meet people anymore.
Don’t use that dude. be patient and let girls come to you….
I disagree with Amy…. I used a dating website while I was in college…. I was way too busy with studying, exams and papers to write to bother getting to know someone with hours and hours of talking. I used one recommended by a close friend of mine… (she met her fiance on there) and yes I met some real losers, but I also met some amazing people. From lawyers to manual labour. Some of which I still talk to and consider friends as of today.
I did not meet my current boyfriend on a dating website.
So I do not consider myself ugly, or desperate. Its a matter of preference. On the up side of it, you get to know someone for who they are instead of what they look like first.
I would recommend not only using a dating website but to get out there and meet new people. Keep in mind that people can lie online and they can be completely different then who they say they are. Just be cautious.
The best way to meet a possible girlfriend, is to meet them through a friend. Friends know what they are like and who they are. Tell your friends to hook you up!
As a woman who’ve used these sites in the past, I can tell you that for every man such as yourself that send notes, you will get an additional 100 to top that. Somtimes you scan through and answer a couple, and skip the ones that repeat the same thing. It really is about seeing if that man is interested enough to continue to get to know you,either revise your approach or cut out. Besides everyone knows that unless that man is half naked in his pic or has a large amount of income, no one responds…B-) j/k.
this really makes me wonder HOW exacaclly “attractive” you really are?!?! (jks)… I truly believe that the only REASON why a person would want to use a dating site is because there obese and cant get out of the house to meet people.. GET OUT THERE, HIT THE CLUBS.. YOUR YOUNG HAVE FUNN!!
life is to short ot be sitting behind the computer messaging “hott chicks” who are probably REALLY hideious in real life.. and obese lol!
please do us ALL a favour and drop the online dating garbage.. dating sites are for DESPERATE MEN AND WOMEN… and thats there LAST resort!