I don’t know what its like for straight people who try online dating. But i have found being a gay guy and looking for a decent guys has been quite difficult for me. To be honest most of the men on gay chat sites seem to be interested in mainly sex and that is just not me. Should i quit while i’m ahead.
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Yeah, so true…so true.
At present I am chatting with two guys online who I met through internet dating sites. No-one from Britain is interested except for a quick s**g. And that is just not my style.
One guy is from the Philippines and the other from Russia. They seem far more mature than the British guys in their approach and expectations in relationships. What is wrong with guys in this country???
One of them is coming over soon to visit me and although I don’t expect very much to come of it, I am really looking forward to getting to know someone who is a very interesting and mature individual.
Yes, the search for Mr. Right is going to be a long, drawn out process, I feel but, having been in a relationship with a total waster of a ‘junkie’ before, I am not giving myself too easily this time.
I am worth alot in what I have to give and I know Mr. Right will be too.
Good luck to you in your search and don’t ever give up!!
Hell yeah!! I’ve met so many good people off myspace and downlink it’s not funny!! You just have to be careful though
Yes, just as it’s possible to find love at church (no off-color remarks about the clergy, please, I’m being sincere), your supermarket or at the local library. Thing is love can and will find you anywhere as long as you’re open to it. Chat rooms and gay bars exist with certain social constructs which really don’t lend themselves to “finding love.” You can, it’s just that most places like that have a clientele that’s looking for sex, not love, as you’ve stated. I wouldn’t quit but perhaps you need to look in OTHER places where the main purpose isn’t “gettin’ some.”
I believe you can find love on the net
Yes, I believe it is possible to meet someone on line and fall in love — I have personally met and spoken to many people who have gotten married as a result of running a personal AD or meeting someone on-line.
Internet relationships have obstacles, but they’re the very same obstacles that ‘real life’ relationships have. People lie on the internet, and people lie face to face. People create ideal constructs on the internet, they do the same face to face.
Although being cautious may take away some of the fun, you are advised to be cautious by at least not believing everything you are told.
well, statistically, they say only 1 in 10 people in personals are really what they say (this stat was about straights, i should point out). so you’ll go through a lot of boneheads before finding someone you click with.
Honestly, you CAN meet a decent guy anywhere. True, most gay dating sites tend to be nothing more than sex channels. And it gets frustrating trying to weed out the guys only looking for sex, and the ones who’ll actually give you the time of day. My advice is to join groups that interest you, whether gay or not, on-line or in person. One of the yahoo groups I belong to is for gays who enjoy going to Disneyland. It’s not sexual at all. Everything is about our shared enjoyment of things Disney. I’m also a member of the Gay Christian Network. Those are both on-line groups I belong to, but have met many of the guys from both. I may not have met my life partner yet, but it’s only a matter of time. I know the right guy will come along when I least expect it.
it’s very possible, i did…well i really wasn’t looking for it, it found me….but it’s probably no different for gays than it is for straight poeple.
Some say you can find it. The truth is no you can not. You might find lust but not love.
Love takes time and most of that time has to be personal contact.
You can meet nice people on the net and then if you get together it may become love. Most of the time not though.
I am not gay. I am a Christian woman that just so happened to find my husband in a secular chat room on Yahoo. In July of 2001 we started chatting in the room. We e-mailed, three weeks later he gave me his cell phone number. We talked set up a meeting on September 11th 2001. He was flying from New Orleans to Washington State where I lived at the time. Well the 11th wasn’t such a great day to travel. On October 10th I flew to New Orleans and celebrated his fathers birthday at Copeland’s with them. The rest is history. I fell in love with his soul. We had the same political and religious beliefs. We had both been divorced and both pretty much had the same outlook on life. We have been married for 5 years and now have a three year old son. Living in Florida and life is wonderful. Yes it’s possible but take the sex aspect out of falling in love it only confuses things. Believe me.
You can find the word and a dozen guys claiming they are looking for it (while they search your pants) but NO in reality it is not found there it is found in your heart.
♥ I do believe that it is possible to find love on the internet… I met my fiance on myspace. She was on a mutal friends page & immediately when I saw her pic I said “Thats the girl I’m going to marry!” And now 16 months later we are happily engaged & living together! I couldnt be happier. I wasn’t looking for love & neither was she and that’s the best time that it comes to you. Thats why its called “falling” in love because you can’t help but trip and fall!
Not all online love interests turn into horror stories. Good Luck!
I think you can form feelings for somebody over the internet but it’s better when you see them in real life! I met my ex over myspace and it was one of the best things ever (while it lasted)! He broke my heart and we’re still trying to be friends.. Don’t give up though. Therer are other Gays out there looking for a nice guy..:)
I know what you mean. I have been to some of the gay chat rooms and it just seems like a group full of perverts who care about nothing else then to get off… quite discouraging. Why don’t you try going to the Meet Up website and search for gay gatherings in your area? You can go and possibly meet somone you’re interested in. Good luck and hopefully you won’t stay discouraged.
My hand thinks so.
I met my girlfriend online.
We met just as friends in a glbt discussion forum. She had a g/f at the time and I was a very obviously queer person in a small town. We just kinda confided in each other.
We’ve talked everyday now, either through messenger, email, telphone, chat rooms, even snail mail..everyday…for the last 9 years.
We are finally meeting in 6 days from today. I’m so excited. I really feel I’ve found my soulmate. We are unbelievably compatible.
It’s possible and it happens. It’s just like trying to find a needle in a gaystack.
Well….we met and fell in love via the internet….2 years and counting…there are normal ones out there….you just gotta weed through the horn balls!
i don’t think so, because you don’t know who your really getting
absolutely.. not everyone that gets online is looking to hurt or people or screw with their emotions … never give up.. just remember to be honest with yourself and be friends first.. good luck !!!
I don’t know but you can certainly find someone to suck your pee pee.
I don’t really know. I haven’t tried. I’m very happy in the relationship that I’m in, but I think that anything is possible.
It’s very, very rare to find a meaningful relationship on the internet so it’s best not to waist one’s time.
Allot of people find love online, its actually a better way to get to know people because its more focussed, less outside distraction, more honesty. I think most people anywhere are mainly interested in sex, they are just free to admit it online.
Yes its very possible i have done it and im still with my boyfriend lol. I cant promise you that it will work out immediatly but it all depends on your search and if you both click.
probably
im not sure
I don’t think you should give up all together…You never know you may meet someone great, you just have to give it time. I always like to say don’t go looking for love, let love find you.
Best of Luck!
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Will you please read Leviticus chapter 17? I am not judging you nor condoning your sexual preference. Just want you to know how God feels.
I was writing to a man for 4 years online, he was planning a trip to America from Belgium to see me. Arrangements were being made for me to meet him at the airport, he was asking me what type of clothing to bring, he had his passport picture taken and was preparing to make the trip. Then he announced he had a wife and his adult children opposed him coming here. I never knew because he neglected to tell me. Since then I am very cautious about anything and anyone. You need to be careful about online relationships. I wouldn’t want this to happen to anyone the way it happened to me. Ask God for wisdom and He will supply the need.