Comments on: Is My Ex Gay? What Do You Think?

By: Mel7382

Mel7382 — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 03:14:32 +0000

Darling, unless someone borrowed his phone, he’s gay. And yes, he will still make a great father. Maybe that’s the reason why there was so many issues.
Good luck!

By: Amos S

Amos S — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 03:14:32 +0000

ouch,yes.he’s gay.nothing you did,so don’t dwell on it.I’m sure he will continue to be a decent father.

By: Vince

Vince — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 03:14:32 +0000

Most probably yes! To what i feel, a Gay can also be a good father.

By: Stranded

Stranded — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 03:14:32 +0000

Straight men don’t call gay dating services. If he’s a good dad…he should still be even if it comes out he’s gay.

By: Sue B

Sue B — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 03:14:32 +0000

more like he’s BI.
His sexuality has nothing to do with his parenting! Geez, you have seen he’s ok with the kids so far right?? So why would you finding a secret make him a bad parent?

By: xrayman 7

xrayman 7 — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 03:14:32 +0000

what do you think? seems pretty obvious

By: Happy-2

Happy-2 — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 03:14:32 +0000

If he has children, that means he had sex with a woman. In order to have sex with a woman, a man has to feel sexually aroused. Sexual arousal for a member of the opposite sex means that it is, by definition, impossible that he is gay (homosexual). However, given his phone activities, I would say it is highly probable that he is bisexual.
And if it takes one to know one, you can take my word for it. I am a man who is bisexual by preference, but who has been married to a woman for 21 years and never cheated on her with a man. And just for the record, I consider myself to be an excellent father! (My wife thinks so too.)

By: Fighting to make it work!!

Fighting to make it work!! — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 03:14:32 +0000

LIARS, I don’t like Liars!!!!! He is gay or confused about his sexuality. You need to ask him has he ever acted on these feelings. In that case, you need to get checked for any STD’s!!! But I understand how you feel because I don’t care what anyone says that hurts when you find out that your husband is gay. If it was another woman, to me, it would’ve been easier because you would know what to do and what to expect. But when it is a man what can you do? The worse part of it was that it was a dating service, so that means that he was LOOKING and that hurts more. If I were you, I would just leave him alone, but still let him see his kids because they are half his anyway. But he is unclear about what he wants and you don’t want to be exposed to any STD’s that he could be exposed to.

By: Onetopla

Onetopla — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 03:14:32 +0000

The gay-o-meter says high risk!
Doesn’t mean he can’t or won’t be a good Dad. Give him a chance.
Ouch! I hope you don’t take it personal if you find that he is gay. This happened to a man I know. His wife was gay and ‘came out’ after 17 years of marriage and the birth of two sons. He was devastated! It wasn’t his fault and it wouldn’t be your fault. This is something your husband would have to explain to your children. He should take full responsibility for whatever happens (if anything) with his relationship between your kids and him. I feel horrible for the kids that are put in a position like this! It isn’t fair to them. Just be there for your children should they need you.
Good luck to you and your family.

By: BaconYUM

BaconYUM — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 03:14:32 +0000

See this is what happens when girls try to experiment with the male anus. Some guys go gay and others leave you. When my ex tried to play with my anus, i always said no, but i still left her cause i couldn’t deal with bi polar s**t fits everyday.