Tell me ladies, have you ever posted professional taken photos online, then meet with the guys only to find that they don’t like you anymore because you are not as made up or look exactly alike photos that have been taken less than a year ago…I just have…I asked the the second guy, “What I did wrong”, he says,”Nothing, I I was just expecting you to be different”.
I’m grateful they weren’t anyone I seriously liked, but they weren’t really cute, either but since we had good communication through phone/email then I would give them a chance and bypass their looks….I am self-conscience now, and I just want to hide. I can’t even raise my head and feel proud anymore.
Nonetheless, I figure I must really work on myself now physically, because I have couple of more dates, but I am so depressed, I couldn’t even get out of my chair at work…I just sort of hid and wiped my eyes…so do you feel me??
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sounds like that first guy put you on a pedastal. where you were perfect in everyway. don’t let it affect you. let it go. you are beautiful.
go on e-mail that guy!!!!!!!!
I will date you online just hit me up baby and I wont hurt you.
Dating is hard work It is not always that fun and romance as most ladies think It can be down right heart breaking and as boring as house work. Give yourself credit for going out there and dating It is very risky when you put your self out for viewing At least you know these two men are not for you That is what dating is all about seeing what is out there for YOU. Take a break maybe and regroup You do value yourself as you are putting a lot of effort into this. You said you had a good repore email etc etc Maybe stop the emailing and met them sooner and talk in person Old Fashion dating. And……it coud be you are not putting out and these men may have thought you were going to be an easy one. Chances are you expect a normal conversation with a man, normal activities like a movie and dinner, men who are willing to put out some effort and time, for you Men who are willing to get to know you better. Keep up your hard work. As maddning and sad on you as it is, you will have a better man for you in the end All you are doing is trying to find your match. A man who is suitable for you and your future with him. You will get better at this and you wont even think about those two lazy men who could not talk in person and did not want you to know just what a farce they were. Up front, up face is a lot more real, then on the email I dont think you are the type to be manipulated. You maybe a lady who expects a man to put some work into you as he should. .
What you need to do is change your photos on the dating site. Put pictures of what you look like on a regular day to day basis. Guys want to see the real you and have an actual idea of what they’ll be getting on the date. Putting a glamour shot on a dating site is really misleading. Those photographs never look like you, plus they are retouched so it makes you look positively flawless. Show the true you in your profile and you should get better responses.
Maybe you should try a different site? I’ve personally had luck with the following:
http://singlesnet.date-comparison.info
http://eharmoney.date-comparison.inf
http://elitemate.date-comparison.info
I have a couple of friends who don’t like strawberries much. No particular reason or anything, they just prefer the taste of apples better. It doesn’t mean strawberries are bad or anything.
Now, some guys really like strawberries a whole lot! And maybe you’re a strawberry! Get my drift?
You don’t even know why things didn’t work out with them. It may have had nothing to do with your appearance at all. Even if it did, if they’re going to reject you for that particular reason, are they really worth having anyway? Don’t you want someone who likes you for yourself?
It’s not fair to get down on yourself just because things didn’t work out with a couple of guys that you weren’t all that into anyway. It’s natural to feel bummed out for a while, but don’t let what happened affect your self-value!