Bit of background on me and Gina, my girlfriend first:
I’m 15 and my girlfriend, Gina is 15, we live in different countries, me in the UK and her in Kuwait and we’re an online couple(before I get rants about online dating I know the dangers of it, I know if I’m meeting up with someone who I met online I should choose the place and I should never choose a place like my house and should always choose a public area with plenty of people about, if all else fails I do martial arts and also I always carry a weapon on me when meeting someone for the first time), we hope to eventually get married one day and have a future together but that all depends on how things work out for us, but right now things are looking pretty good for us.
Now at Gina’s school there’s this lesbian girl who really likes her and this is sort of making me jealous cos, because of me living in the UK I can’t do certain things with Gina but apparently against Gina’s will this girl has been puuting her arms around Gina, carrying her bag for her, giving her stuff in class and that’s the stuff I should be doing but seen as I don’t live in kuwait I can’t, and this is making me jealous.
And I mean Gina has told this girl that she’s straight and has a bf bu the girl just won’t listen and is carrying on flirting with her and stuff and it is making me really jealous. I mean I can accept if someones lesbian but this girl after being told by Gina that she’s straight has no right in flirting with Gina in the way she does, Gina’s my gf not and her’s and if the girl looked hard enough I’m sure she’d find the perfect partner who she could be happy with.
What can me and Gina do to stop this girl pestering her?
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It is up to Gina to tell this girl to stop touching her. Gina also sounds like she is trying to make you jealous since she obviously is telling you all this over email since you are not there to witness it. You are in a long distance relationship and both of you just have to trust each other and not be jealous just because someone might be interested in your partner.
gina, here’s a thought. SLAP HER
Rude sexual advances are best repulsed with a ***** slap upside the head. Some dummies gay or straight, just can’t understand that “No” means “No”. You can’t reason with such people, but a little pain might get their poor tired nonfunctional brains the kick start it needs.
Nobody, gay or straight, boy or girl, man or woman should be subject to unwanted, rude or aggressive sexual advances from anybody period.
Being all nice and sweet with such people is a no-win situation. So get rude back and tell the person “Get the F**& out my face.” and if they don’t, kick the crap out of them. They deserve it.
As for carrying a weapon around in the UK, I’d recommend you not.
You can’t stab or shoot anybody for simply making a rude sexual advance. The use of deadly force in such a situation would not be appropriate or legal and you’ll face murder or assault charges. So be smart.
You can defend yourself, but only appropriate to the risk. In the UK deadly force is authorized only if the attack has the potential for severe bodily harm or risk of death. Just saying “Hey baby, let’s get naked” does not constitute a deadly health-threatening assault. It is rude and crude and a little Donnybrook spirit will help greatly.
Don’t be all sweet and nice with idiots. Tell them to piss off or else and back it up. Somebody grabs my breasts, I’ll break his or her arm. And I can do it. I need carry no gun or knife on me. The Bobbies don’t carry guns, so why should you? You are just asking for a prison sentence if you use some deadly weapon inappropriately..
But there are “legal” weapons like canes and umbrellas which with a little training can even the odds and you don’t risk jail time.
So be smart. Capisce? None of this sixes and sevens stuff OK?
You are the only guy on the face of this planet WHO doesn’t want his gf to be a lesbian.
hey if u say ur gf is straight nothing will happing .well tell gina that when she see the girl comeing start talking to other girls .or maybe find this girl a gf for her .so she will leave gina alone.
if a girl doesn’t wanna be flirted with, she WILL find a way to stop it..
What’s the ruling on lesbianism in Kuwait?! Surely there should be some kid of sexual harassment ruling in her school that she could threaten the girl with.
Also, at the age she is, most girls would not think its cool to be gay, so maybe she should start making it obvious to other girls in her class and stuff that she is uncomfortable about the fact that this girl is all over her.
I dont blame you for carrying a weapon just for self defence- just be sure its small enough to be legal, and i hope you dont ever have to use it!
As for buying her gifts and things; think about it this way- you guys seem to be pretty close, ok, not in terms of living close, but in terms of really in love. That is all she needs- your love, and she has it. You will have the rest of your life to shower her with gifts and things, when you finally meet.
I know its what Gina has been trying to do, but tell her to try and ignore her as much as possible and hopefuly soon she will get bored.
Good luck mate