Well i started talking to a guy 2 months ago on msn we started talking through a dating site we click really well, dont run out of things to talk about and have the same interests he asked for my number about a month ago and have also spoken on the phone and in texts before
He lives about a 30 min drive away from me and know suggested meeting up to go to the cinema or something i do quite like him as we totaly click
Anyone else had this experience just nervous about meeting him and any tips
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definately meet somewhere public.
I did a similar thing a couple of years ago, and no matter how nice they guy was on the internet/phone, I decided to meet him in a bar and got a couple of my friends to stay in the bar with me (pretending not to know me of course) just to keep an eye on things to make sure he wasn’t a weirdo. It turns out that he was a really a nice guy, but we didn’t seem to click so well in the flesh, so I made my excuses after a couple of hours and went out on the town with the girls.
Better to be safe than sorry – i’m just really paranoid though as my friend’s mum was attacked on a night out and she has always drummed personal safety into our heads.
Good luck though and just be yourself
Hi. I met my boyfriend on the internet, and we have been together for six years now. I was soooo nervous, but just be yourself, keep the conversation flowing, though it might be hard at the movies because its not a place you can really talk. Make sure you are carful, meet in a public place etc. Good luck. x
Yes I think you are right to be nervous about meeting someone for the first time that you don’t know. I would suggest running a background check on him. If you go to beenverified.com you can find out if he is married/divorced, has a criminal record, or is a sexual predator. You have to be careful these days and it is always best to be safe.
I met my gf from the internet. Was actually from an online game >.> but yeah when we met for the first time after talking for months va phone and msn, sparks flew. I think by the time we met we knew each other so well it wasnt like meeting a new person it was like seeing a best friend that moved away. As others have said be yourself, try to have fun more then anything and just keep it safe and simple. Best of luck to you.
Have a friend call you a little into the date so if hes a complete tosser you can say my cat died! or if its goin well just say im on a date leave me alone,lol.
Have fun!
Be VERY careful. Something I would recommend is to double date- tell him to bring a friend and you bring a friend. You never want to be alone on a deal like this- even in public. Bring someone with you!
If the guys name is Brandon , the run for your life..lol,but really..
be carefull
Sounds good! but aways remember to be safe.
Hope all gose well for you guys!
like a previous answer said, just try and be yourself.
meet in public, with company. Don’t tell him your whole safety plan. be prepared for the worst
be yourselve
have fun getting murdered and raped then! i don’t do that stuff!
Hi i have met a few guys in the circumstance you describe. I would say that probably 7 out of 10 were looking for sex but, don’t be alarmed just be cautious. Meet him at a public place and let someone close to you know about it. Cinema is probably not a good idea as you won’t have the chance to chat so maybe go for a meal or a drink, but don’t get drunk! It will give him a bad impression of you and it might lead you to do things you will later regret.
Just go, be yourself and don’t set your expectations too high.
Wait for him to call after your first date, if he doesn’t then he’s not worth your time, if he does, take it slow and get to know him.
Good luck to you!