I have run into a possible dilemma. I joined online matching, and all of a sudden I find myself making plans with three people to either meet personally or speak on the phone. What I want to know is, when doing this kind of thing, is it really wrong to be meeting more than one person within a few days from each other, for the first time as friends, even though there’s “dating” going on? To me, just meeting as friends and getting to know each other isn’t the same as seeing each other exclusively after we have fallen in love…in that case my answer is clear as day. But for now, does anyone have any suggestions? Should I let the others know that I have more “friends” that I’m contacting? I know, dumb question and I know the answer to it (which is the suggestion no to do it), but I’d like to hear your perspective on it. Thanks