Alright, so I’m 19. I’m a straight guy, and still no girlfriend. The reasons are: I don’t ask girls out enough, and when I do (rarely) it doesn’t work. The few girls who were into me were complete turn-offs for me for some reason. I also don’t have that many friends and do not go to social events very often.
I thought about perhaps creating an online profile on a website. Why? You can be a little bit more picky and also have a higher chance of finding someone nice (searching based on interests, what they write about themselves, etc…).
I think that overall I’m okay, I’m just lacking experience. And I would like to start dating. I am a nice person and an A+ student, I look okay (will be way better in half a year, just started working out), and I look mostly for personality – someone that is fun to be with.
Should I do it?
And I think that being a university student with no car and little money could also be a little problem
I say at your age is too not worry so much about girls. The one for you will come your way and in the mean time just keep focusing on your career goals and become successful person. This will be more of a turn on than anything and I’m sure that girls will come flocking your way.
i used an online dating service,it worked for me.i’ve been married almost 4 years now. good luck,you’ll get experience talking to girls.
most people on those sites are not what u expect
Well the first guy on here is correct, I tried the online dating thing and it was not what I expected…I decided to sign up because I kept meeting the wrong type of guys and I wanted to find someone who I could really connect with so I decided to fight any doubts that I had about it and signed up with eharmony. They sent me a bunch of matches but many lived very far away and others were just not my type. However, I did notice someone on the first or second day (can’t remember exactly) that they had sent me who grabbed my attention. I was debating speaking to him and did wuss out but the next day, I received contact from him. Long story short, he definitely surpassed my expectations of only finding losers on there and in actuality, surpassed my expectations for what I wanted in a boyfriend. He is truly amazing and we have been together for about a month now. I have never met anyone like him and I am incredibly in love and I would say why not give it a chance and see if there is someone out there that is compatible for you. Sure there are going to be people on these sites that you are not going to be interested in or that you just don’t click with or don’t like but there is still that chance that you could like me and so many others, luck out and find someone really amazing that you will be happy with. You only live once and if what you’re doing now isn’t bringing what you want, then why not break your boundaries and take a risk at meeting that special someone. Good luck and take care:)
Go for it.
Go to plentyoffish website, its free. However, like another mentioned, don’t get your hopes up. Most gals (even if they are good looking and seem nice) are not what they seem to be on those websites. So far most the dates I’ve had (or gotten into a relationship) have been quite odd!!!