i was stupid and signed up for an online dating site and met a guy who i thought was nice. we started using yahoo messenger and talking via messenger and web cam. he did stuff that made me uncomfortable like show me him jacking himself and stuff. the last time we had a conversation he got really mad at me because i wouldnt show him my breasts so i deleted the messenger and my online account to the site.
its been a little over a week and i went on yahoo to check my mail and an instant message showed up from him which i didnt know you could do. he said “hey beautiful its been a while. what happened? you just disappeared off the face of the earth.” i didnt message him back and blocked his name but then today i got a message from a different name and it was him saying “hey baby how are you?” i clicked out of that one and couldnt figure out how to block it.
what do i do he keeps trying to get in contact with me it’s freaking me out. do i delete my yahoo account? (that would make things really hard because then id have to change it on all of my accounts and all of the other things my address is put down for that i dont even know how to change)
(btw im 18 he’s 21)
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tell him you aren’t interested and to stop contacting you–only do this once.
then block him and ignore any messages that get through from him. Just delete them w/o reading them. eventually he’ll get bored or get the message and move on to someone else.
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@ Ben: their ages show that they are both adults so no laws are being broken(?)
her age shows that she doesn’t have the experience to get rid of someone she doesn’t want to communicate with because she thinks she’s being “mean” or a “witch” by telling them to go away and leave her alone or because she’s too scared or creeped out by him to do anything that may encourage him.
and his age shows that he’s old enough to know better but young enough to still do stupid inappropriate things online with strangers who may or may not be old enough to engage him.
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on second thought, don’t bother telling him to leave you alone just ignore him. I’m concerned any response from you will only encourage him at this point.
Hmm, he sounds obsessed, make sure you havn’t let slip any personal details. I would just ignore all the accounts he sends message from, eventually if you don’t reply he’ll give up.
Don’t send messages back saying that he should stop stalking you, that won’t work, you need to give no response.
what does your age and his age have to do with anything?
just have someone you know look up his i.p. address the next time he writes you and send the cops to his place and have him arrested and put in jail. if necessary get a restraining order put on this man.
What a creep…thats happened to me before on yahoo also. I hate that new IM thing they have on the mail page. Anyways…sorry not sure what you can do about it…I just ignore. Don’t respond and I’m sure the creepster will find you boring and he’ll go away!
you shouldn’t delete your account you should tell him you want nothing to do with him. or you can just change your yahoo name so he won’t be able to find you.
He knows how to have fun. Us perverts have a blast. The problem is you don’t know how to let loose and have fun.
Report it and ask that he be blocked.
block him
sorry..but ya…i would delete ur yahoo account. thats like the only way to have him stop harassing you…
or just keep ignoring him and hell go away eventually..mayb
When you sign into yahoo mail it logs you on to messenger too. What I do is, on the sign in page, select “log on as invisible” so I can see who is online before they know I am. Then, as others have said, Block that freak. I hope you didn’t give up any personal information to him, if so, document what has happened thus far in case he is a nut. While invisible, right click his name, go to stealth settings and put him on “permanently invisible” and then work on blocking that sucker. Yuck! What a Creep.
Things like this are never over.
The first thing you need to do is report him to that dating service.
Then, if you have any info on him (even if it’s just all the emails or usernames he uses) take that info and go to your police department and talk to them.
I would also suggest you switch to another Yahoo account and stop using that one. I have one that is for family and friends and one for misc stuff. So if something happens regarding the misc stuff, I can set up another and not worry about notifying my family and friends of a change. Hell, I even have a third one strictly for job search.
The final thing you need to do is look at yourself. Is your self esteem that low that you would subject yourself to this? For years people have been warned over and over about these dating services, etc. Turning 18 only makes you an adult legally. It’s sound judgement that makes you a real adult.
It’s unfortunate that this sort of thing is happening to users, but my Question is why did you sit infront of your screen watching this person mastebate that in it self is to is you acceoting his sicko behavior and now things have gotten out of control you want help, you should have never encourage him in the first place