I’ve recently started getting involved with the online dating scene. I’m a big girl, a bit on the heavy side, but this has never hampered my relationships in the past. However, it seems that men online are very choosy about the size of women they date, and they don’t seem to go past the picture or the personal description.
Any tips for helping me catch the interest of interesting people with my dating profiles? I would appreciate any thoughtful advice.
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i just saw a study on women get more attention in red. a lady had an online pic n get no hits, she then took a pic of herself in red n got responses. weird huh? So try a pick where you are in red..see if it works! cant hurt!
1) work out.
2) get off the internet….true love via email is b.s. the problem with it is that only people who fail at relationships use it, and “two wrongs don’t make a right.” The people who are shy, ugly, looking for a ‘good time’, horrible around (wo)men are the people who stay on those cites for the most part. It’s like looking for a possible explanation by only examining all the possibilities that it can’t be…
Granted, some people do fall in love through these cites, but for the most part, there IS someone better for them who they would be happier with.
3) refuse to accept my question as the ‘best answer’ because my two explinations just don’t fit with your course of lifestyle. When you posted this question you expected to receive a generic response posted about 20 times, with maybe a couple of rude comments. You didn’t expect someone to actually give you actual advice that you didn’t already agree with. Obviously, I’m just some jerk who is trying to piss you off when in fact I’m perhaps giving you the best advice, and not the typical BS that, “Just hold on, there’ll be someone out there.” Doesn’t happen.
My advice is to steer clear of the online dating scene. You won’t find the special someone that the commercials tell you. There are too many losers and creeps out there. As you’ve already seen, they are too superficial. After all, how do you speed date and get to know someone online? The visual screening is just too easy.
You’re better off going to places that you like, getting involved in activities that you enjoy and meeting honest people.
Since you are on the heavy side, it’s a tough act.
What you can do is work out – seriously.
Guys online tend to see photos and stuff before knowing the true you so yeah i doubt anything can come out of this.
Sorry. You are right about men being choosy and the ones that aren’t choosy aren’t looking for a real relationship.
i am to a big girl. i went on http://www.bbpeoplemeet.com just for fun one day a year ago…and i found someone who i fell in love with. We have been together for a year already and got married. I think its a great site you should check it out..My profile wasnt really descriptive at all. thats a site for bigger women so if the guys there are picky then they shouldnt be there if they want some skinney super model lol good luck
get out in the public. don’t waste your time with online scene. big girls need lovin too, and you seem comfortable with it and a lot of guys are too. go out and enjoy your life when you notice guys out doing the same things that’s when you’ll find the guys you’d be interested in bcuz you share a common bond
If they don’t want to be with a bigger girl and you “convince” them of it somehow, it’s likely going to end bad. Go to a more specific dating site that’s focused on bigger people, maybe?
Largefriends.com I think is one, but I’m not sure.
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Any guy that is only interested on whats on the outside isn’t worth your time. Dont worry too much about it. One day, some guy will realize that you are a great person and attraction isnt just skin deep.
You will probably only find heartbreak. There are many perverts, losers, criminals, and crackpots looking for nice women to scam and abuse.
You might try eharmony.com but that’s about it.
yeah online is good ,
but it’s not that good ..
you know ?
alot of guys on the internet or internet dating are fakes .
they’re complete jerks .
meet guys the old way .
Everyone has a match .
Creative writing and certain charm. Genuine people looking for a match versus a pieces of booty will see to giving you a chance.
Internet dating = EPIC FAIL!
ah online dating, um thats pretty bad relationship no offense, because
people can just lie about themselves
they can use you
and it can be really dangerous
big is beatiful baby
work it
work it
Just lie
because if they truly love you, they will love you for who you are.
Not for how you look
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theres a bunch of old guys that say there 20 in chatrooms
Then you shouldn’t do online dating.. if they’re not satisfied with the real picture, then screw them, find a real man face to face.
you shouldnt go out and look for it, true LOVE will find you!!
good luck!
Try showing only your face in photos. on myspace or facebook. get to know someone and than let them see the rest. start with there heart and than time tell
my friend is getting married this month and she met him on my space.
I’m Right Here!!!
ha ha!!!! sorry i cracked up *snickers* but try bored.com or one of those pop up adds you get along the side of your screen
HAHA Not Possible.
Its hard enough to trust the people you date in person, but online? Come’on now.
just be honest and dont sound desperate
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just be you an if thats not what they want then screw them youll find ur man good luck
look for a chubby chaser
Don’t do online dating..-_- go out and search trust me, its better that way..A lot of perverts and idiots online..
if you do find something online, it wont be true love.
i don’t think it would be great to find a relationship online i think u should go out in a person and find it
online is not the best place to find true love
dont internet date
unless you like rape
then feel free to date online
You can have success with internet dating if you choose the right sites. There are actually online dating sites directed only at men who are looking for bigger women. Of course you would apply the same safety rules as you would if you met someone at a bar. Good luck, hope you find someone special.
Success in dating internet or otherwise is put yourself out there. Don’t whine, only talk about the positive things you posses.If you are quiet you say “I am a great listener”… I am positive upbeat and curvy, I tell people right up from i love my body I don’t complain about the few extra pounds I carry around. also you have to have a life and if you don’t then get one. Telling someone you stay at home every night and watch reality shows is not a real turn on…do you walk your dog then you say “I am an animal enthusiest and enjoy daily walks with my dog” if you work 80 hours a week you say “I am very involved with my career but am looking for someone to spend quality time with”. Always focus on the positive. Email every guy that is appealing to you if they don’t email back or say they are not interested so what you never have to see them face to face. Always email every guy that emails you back. Even if your not interested in developing a relationship with the person it will build your confidence.
Mr. Right is out there or at least Mr. Right NOW!
In regards to Nicks comment: yes of course you must be safe and never let anyone you haven’t checked out know your home address, you should even block your phone number until you are comfortable with the person.
BUT RAPE come on stop scaring this person. I have been on more then a few really nice dates. I dated my first online guy for 2 years. I have never been raped….