I was dating a man and we had a major falling out where he blames me for ruining his life (which I didn’t) and it ended with him telling me he has moved on and never wanted to hear from me ever again. I never responded to his last remark, but instead blocked his email and text messages and moved on with my life and focused all my time toward my business. Since then my business has taken off and I have been advertising more on the web.
A month after our falling out I saw someone had posted my personal information on the web and listed me as a lawyer on one site and on a sex dating site. I also started recieving calls to my company phone number from people who claim my number was a radio show phone number. This may be random do to my increase visibility on the web, but I can’t say this for sure.
Two months after our falling out I saw he has been checking out my website. I know his IP address and I have the ability to track his clicks through sessions and he keeps searching my site clicking on every contact us link and ends up on my contact page where he sits for a long period of time.
The only way he can contact me through my website is to fill out an online form, which requires him to list his name and email address or the message will not be sent. He hasn’t sent me a message yet and this has been going on for a month and half now. I gather by his search pattern he is trying to locate my email address.
I am curious do you think he is attempting contact me or is he up to no good? If he is trying to contact me why doesn’t he just fill out the form, why would he need my email address?
I don’t care if he is attempting to contact me, I am just worried if he isn’t intending to hurt my business.
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Well, I would be a little nervous if I were you also.
The fact that he was/is so bitter towards you makes it hard to believe that he would have honest intentions to contact you to apologize- or whatever. The circumstances with your phone number being given out are not for sure tied to him, right? But who else would it be?
I would watch your back… you can never be too careful.
Well I guess you cant say for sure what he is upto…. its like a waiting game. I am so proud of you for doing what you could to block him out of your life….and good for you and your business! I am just curious to know though, how can you track if someone has been checking out your website? Can you do that on a blog? to see if someone is checking out your blog?
http://www.angelfire.com/empire/serpenti…
Wow! He sounds like a stalker. I would watch this really closely. Is there anyway maybe that you could block him.
he sounds like a jerk and you are better off without him. ignore him and hopefully this won’t hurt your business. =)
ok
his a freak