What kind of tips would you have for me given these circumstances. You think I should give up?
1. I’m in my last year of college (haven’t met any interests or guys interested there in school)
2. Is reserved and kind of quiet
3. Do not have that many friends. Not much of a social life at all.
4. Has never dated or been in a relationship. 100% inexperienced.
5. Has gone to couseling to resolve social anxiety and shyness issues.
6. Is worried I will never find anyone, or go through the fun experimental phase.
7. Let’s say online dating or matchmaking sites are NOT an option. NOT preferred.
Any tips or advice? Thanks!
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You have to overcome your fear, and get yourself out there. You may get rejected a few times, but this is good. Social skills are just like any other skill… practice makes perfect. Don’t take what people say to heart, just simply keep moving on, keep meeting as many people as you possible can.
You won’t find someone if you aren’t showing that you are available. Practice you body language, and your speech as you talk to people, smile and give off a fun vibe. People want to be around other people who enjoy life. Everyone’s life is their own journey, when you see that another person is going through what seems to be an awesome life story, you want to be apart of it. The same goes for you.
Get some fun hobbies going in your life, find other people who enjoy those same hobbies, get more interesting hobbies, repeat.
But most of all, just be comfortable being yourself. I’m not talking about the shy persona you put out, but rather the inner you, the person you are when no one is looking, be that person, and be loud about it. The people who mind, don’t matter, the people who matter, don’t mind.
be patient, everything and what u want in life will naturally happen….dont stress urself getting what u want…….d right guy will come along….there is nothing wrong with not being experienced about relationship