Why Do Women In Their 30′s And 40′s Want Guys Younger Than Them?

On most of the online date sites – women in their 30′s and 40′s seem to always say they want to meet a guy their age or younger than them. Most guys want a woman younger than them. The math does not work. What ever happened to women going out with older guys (2-10 years older)??? I ask because all women on the web sites attracted to me are older than me and I have no interest in them!

Where Are All The Lesbians In Their 20′s And 30′s In Indianapolis, In?

I am 27 yrs old and live in Indianapolis. I have been out of a long term relationship for a year now. I am trying to get back into the dating scene, but I am not having much luck. I am having a serious problem finding lesbians my age. I’ve tried the online personal sites, which generated a few first dates that didn’t lead to second ones. I’ve been to the gay clubs, but I’m not really into it and I don’t think you can really meet quality people like that. All the GLBT events I have recently been to are all men or the women there are old enough to be my mother or grandmother. I’m looking for someone within 10 years of my age. Is there a hangout or event that I don’t know about? Please help!