We were matched on eharmony and have been exchanging e-mails since mid December. He is 39 and I’m 34 both single educated professionals. Both living in the Caribbean but on different islands.We have swopped photos and exchanged texts..nothing too deep or hot and heavy. We want to meet and he plans to fly to me though nothing concrete.Its going good.He wants to ‘get to know me’ online and then to meet and for there to already be some closeness so that if there is physical chemistry then the relationship can progress smoother and faster. We are looking for life partners so the search while fun has a real intention. I need advice because I feel uncomfortable opening up too much to a man that is likely to be having simultaneous online or maybe in person relationships..I am easier with him coming to meet me as us still strangers.This is partly cultural as this is not part of my culture, I cant ‘play’ with men and feel uncomfortable even cyber dating like this.