Men – I’ve Been Out Of The Dating Scene For A While… What Do You Think Of This? (ladies You Can Answer Too!)

Hi guys –
I have been out of the dating scene for a while due to a long relationship. Now, I’m back in and met this wonderful guy. He and I met in person (we’ve talked online for nearly 2 years) on Saturday night at a local nightclub. He acted very into me. He held my hand, danced with me, told me I was beautiful, and even kissed me. We were inseperable all night. At the end of the night he said he’d call me soon.
The next day he texts me and initiates conversation on MSN, the day after he messaged me on Facebook, and then yesterday he finally asked me to hang out again on Friday. Now, my question is… since I have been out of the dating scene for so long, how do I know what he’s after? I am hanging out with him in hopes of a relationship blossoming but I have no idea what his intentions are. Are there any signs you men give us women when you are really into us? Any other first date tips for me? I want to WOW him without messing this up!!!
Thanks a lot!

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Gay Or Not Gay? Whats The Answer?

This guy that has been asking me out for months we met online on a dating site for straight people
Has an annoying lisp
When I asked him what he wanted to wear for Halloween. He replied he wanted to come dressed as one of the characters of abba with knee high boots and little shorts.
When he was in high school he told me that during weekends for fun his friends would “accidently” dress him as a woman where he would do a fashion show for them with high heels and all. I sais did this happen once? He said no a couple of times. When he was in the tolilet he said he saw some guy peeing or you could see his thing – he giggled like a girl would blush at seeing some guys winki. When he went out one of his gay friends pinched him on the butt, he giggle and gave them a mean stare but did not stay stop.
When I was organising my girls night out he said if I didn’t have any good numbers he said that he could put some stocking on and heels cause he has great legs.
He has very feminine manerings including when I lent him my bracelet he did not want to take it off and paraded it to me as if he was a girl.
He has told me that since he was a child people though he was gay and I also asked him if he was and he says “I’m not gay and only attacted to women!!”
This man has been persuing me asking me out for months and will not say no for an aswer. When I do agree to go out he wants to hold my hand and wants me to be his girlfriend. I said no.
But he spoils me rotten when we go out so its been hard to shake him off. He pays for EVERYTHING even when I say no.
I am confused cause he acts gay but says his not. Can anyone make sence of this????

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10 Points For Best Answer!!!!!!!!!!?

I’m a sophomore and about a month ago I got dumped by a guy I THOUGHT I was in love with. I was wrong cuz I’m over him now, and we dated almost 9 months. He ignored me half the time. Ever since then, I’ve wanted a bf soooo bad, and now 4 guys like me! I have no idea which one I like best, but there’s one I don’t like.
Guy #1
Alex
He was my first bf, and I dated him a couple times, the longest time being almost 2 months, which isn’t very long. We were on and off a lot. He was clingy, over emotional, dramatic, wanted to marry me, enough said! I don’t wanna go out with him, but I need to tell him that.
Guy #2
Parker
I met him online on Facebook. We clicked on each other on the Are You Interested thing, and then he added me as a friend. We’ve talked and he seems like such a nice guy! I know he’s a Christian, like I am, and that’s very, VERY important to me. He also knows some of my friends. On his profile it says he can sometimes be quiet, and that’s another thing we have in common. My best friend is going to see if I can meet him soon before I choose which guy to go out with, which will hopefully be this weekend at the latest, especially since school ends next week. He doesn’t go to the same school as me.
Guy #3
Tyler
I’ve known him since Freshman year, when he was in my science class. Last year he was kind of obnoxious and got in trouble a lot. A ton of people don’t like him, but this year he’s been trying very hard to be liked, and I can see how much he wants to be liked. He asked me out today, and he was definetely nervous. I said I’d think about it (cuz I had already been talking to Parker).
Guy #4
Grayson
I don’t know much about Grayson, but I invited him to my bonfire on Saturday, and he was there. He likes video games and he’s a really nice guy. I think he might be a little shy, like I am. Only bad thing is my dad got a little too friendly with him, which is kinda….weird. So if I chose him, I guess I’d have competition? But at least I know my dad likes him. My friend told me today that he wants to ask me out but is really nervous. He’s in her last class.
So I have a huge problem! My dad keeps pressuring me to choose Grayson, but that’s only cuz my dad got so buddy-buddy with him! He hasn’t even met the other 2 I like! And when I told him about Parker, he said “He’s probably a druggist”! Okay, Parker knows some of my friends! I even asked them! He lives 3 blocks from my best friend’s bf! It makes me so mad that my dad assumes the worst in people he hasn’t even met!
Anyway, which guy do you think is best and why? I NEED LOTS OF OPINIONS!!!

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Please Answer This! I Need Help Asap!!!!?

I’m 16 and the guy I just started dating is 17. Only problem is….I HAVEN’T EVEN MET HIM!!!! We met on facebook last night on Are You Interested. He added me as a friend and we talked for an hour and found out we had a lot in common, including he’s a Christian, which is very important to me. After we talked awhile, he asked me if I wanted to be together just online until we got the chance to meet, and I said yes. My sister and mom think it’s stupid, and now I’m thinking I made a mistake. I mean, there are a lot of people on the internet who lie. I’ve had boyfriends before, so it’s not that I want to know what it’s like to have a boyfriend. The last relationship I had wasn’t good and the breakup was bad, and now I’m finally over it, so I wanted a boyfriend really bad. The guy lives half an hour away from me, and we never go to the town he lives in, so we’d probably never be able to meet. We talked a little bit today, and he said, “good night. love ya :) ”. I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO! I think I have to break up with him, but I’m really bad at breaking up with guys, and it’s not easy for me. I know this probably sounds really really stupid, but I’m so stressed I feel like crying. What do I say to him next time we talk???? He put me as his top friend! Omg I feel like such an idiot! HELP!!!!!

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10 Points For Best Answer!!!!!!?

I’m a sophomore and so is this guy I met on Facebook. We clicked yes on each other on the Are You Interested thing, and then he added me as a friend. He knows my best friend’s boyfriend, and another guy I know. He goes to a different high school and so do the other guys, but not my best friend. I talked to him twice – yesterday and today. He seems like a really nice guy, and unlike other guys I’ve dated, he’s a Christian like I am. Both times we talked online, he was the one to start the conversation. He says on his profile he can be quiet sometimes, and that’s another thing we have in common. I haven’t met him yet, but I’ve seen pictures of him. My best friend told me she met him once, and that he’s nice. On his wall, it said he became friends with this one girl, and she wrote on his wall saying hi to him. I know I’m probably paranoid, but I’m just worried he’ll like her more than me. The only reason I’m worrying about this is because things like that have happened with other guys I’ve liked sooo many times. I just need advice! Thanks in advance!
Oh, and what are some things we could talk about next time we talk? I don’t wanna seem boring cuz that was a huge problem with the last guy I dated.

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I Have A Some Questions For Bi-sexual Girls Or Lesbians, Can You Help Answer Them?

I’m 34 and have had a boyfriend for almost 8 years now. We are growing apart. Our relationship is very stressful. Since I was a teen, I’ve found myself attracted to women. I did “experiment” in college but didn’t date any women. If my bf and I split, I’d like to try dating a woman but I don’t know how to meet any! I really don’t want to go to a gay bar (I live an hour from Chicago) and just “hook up”. What are some other ways? I’m preety but I am feminine, would both “butch” and “girly” (I hope these terms are not offensive, if they are, please tell me the correct terms) women, possibly find me attractive? I’m also very shy at first around both women and men, is that a problem? I’d love to find a woman who loves animals just as much as I do and someone I can talk to about anything (this is not the case with any man I’ve ever dated). Please give me any advice you have! What about free dating services online, are there any good sites? Or is this a bad way to meet someone?

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Is It Wrong To Lie Like This On A Dating Site? Best Answer!?

I am a 20 year old guy and I’m really wanting to meet a nice girl. So I decided the other day to try online dating…it seems to be getting huge, there are even sites devoted to college students!
So…is it wrong for me to make a profile on a Christian Dating site? Thats the kind of place where your “more likely” to meet actual nice girls with morals and values like mine.
Problem is I’m not religious. I was raised to be Christian and my entire family is… I’m just not sure what I believe myself….but I’m not here to discuss my religious beliefs. But I am a really nice guy with the same morals and values as a christian person and like I said my family is I’m just not sure. Is this wrong? What if I just explain all that in my profile is that okay?

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