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Ok… I’m taking you wayyy back. I’m a 22 year old female, born again Christian, and I love very easily, and the people I’m talking about are all guys and of course I will not give their real names. I met my best friend, Korey, (24) in high school but we didn’t become best friends until 4 years ago. Korey is from Louisiana and is very conceided and he has to be right all the time. He’s a marine in Iraq. His ********* and party lifestyle drives me insane. So i can only deal with his big headedness for so long! But, In that time we’d hang out and occasionally kiss but I never real had the bf/gf feelings for him, like he did for me. I met a guy, Anthony, about two years ago. Anthony (30) is from Texas but he lived in Louisiana for a little while now back in texas and I met online, had dinner, and then quit talking to him to get back with my ex (who is not part of this story so I won’t give him a name). Being I only gave us about a week to talk and kinda get to know each other I didn’t think to much of him. After Anthony was long gone, I started a new job and I met Tim. Tim (40) is country. likes horses he know just how to hug me when I’m down and he knows what to say.(keep in mind I’m still best friends with a guy that would like to be more than friends) Tim and I start dating. Tim has two kids already hes very much a family man (so is Anthony and Korey will be when he has kids) in those 8 months he never introduced me to his kids. (We lasted 8 months) He said he wasn’t going to have more kids.Then Anthony (also in Iraq on contract-ex Army) comes back in the picture and I give hime a shot, shortly after. He’s awesome. We finish each others sentences and every thing only problem was the distance. About 3 months deep in our relationship, I never seen Anthony since we had seen each other 2 years ago, I decide I’m lonely, I’m going through changes and I miss Tim. (he lives 7 minutes from my house) So Tim and I hang out like we used to. Before Anthony comes home from far-far-away land, I tell him that Tim and I have been hanging out and of course it was a break up but I was ok with it (even tho we had so much chemistry) Anthony has 3 kids two stay in his state one kid in another state. Soon I was going back and forth between Tim and Anthony then….. Korey decides he wants to take me on vacation expense paid for my bday-vacation well deserved! Of course I accepted! Well on vacation Korey started texting a girl he usted dated about 6 months ago. But I don’t like her because she thought we dated which we didn’t and she tried to stop making us be friends. When we came back home from vacation after feeling jealous the whole week in Fl. I decided we need to be together instantly. Korey said when he gets back from Iraq we are gonna get married (which is in about 2wks). Tim who didn’t want any more kids said he’d truly consider it and he even introduced me to his kids, and Anthony is calling me Mrs. saying as soon as he buys a house I can move in and get married.
A little more fyi
I ALWAYS wanted to move to Texas.
Korey lives in Cali (active military) Not sure what he wants to do with himself (reinlist or get a different job)
Tim content where he is in life. He has a nice job but lives in a not so good trailer. and he don’t want to move!
Anthony lives in Texas and always strives for better
I try to make it to church twice weekly. Stopped cursing, stoped smoking and I’m abstaining from sex.
They all say they are religious but Tim hasnt been to church in years and when i offer he always says no. Korey says he is religious too but when i offer he also said no he says he’ll go maybe once a week when he gets back to the states but not “everyday”. Anthony goes to church and wants to be more active in church. He was just rebaptised!
If i could pick lil parts of each one i could sculpt the perfect men but thats not reality!
So I wanted to get married but now I don’t know what to do because I have three great in some ways and not so great in other ways guys in love with me, and I don’t know how to pick or what to do. Please help!!
I have met the most wonderful guy online. Crazy thing is I was bored and just looking for someone, anyone to chat with. He IM’ed me from the chatroom we were both in. We chatted for a few hours that first day and have spent hours each night on the phone since we met.
He’s on a visa that expires in 4.5 months. Last night he said that he plans to extend it. He also has no plans to return to the Middle East to live– just visit. He ran into some personal problems and moved to another state where he has family (we lived in the same state when we met online).
Last night he asked if we still like each other in the future would I be willing to marry him… I do like him alot and pretty much said yes.
The odd thing is he moved before we got a chance to meet face to face. I’ve lived in America my whole life and have only gone out with Christian, American guys. Today I realized I was essentially proposed to last night, but never went on a date or even seen him in person (I saw him on a webcam the 1st night we met).
I did a little research and discovered that Muslim men don’t date. I’m still trying to recover from that shock… He has been teaching me a little about Islam. I assumed at some point the guy and girl would date and get to know each other, but I’m seeing they don’t.
What’s more is if we do marry I fear telling my extended family that our wedding will pretty much be our first date…well, not first date, but just about. I’d like to go visit him once he gets settled in. My mom is the only person I’ve told about him. Most of my family lives out of state.
Am I correct that we prolly won’t date before we get married… if we are to marry?
on monday after school he came up to me and asked if i wanted too be his girlfriend ( we had been on a few dates) i told him i didnt want to bc i wasnt ready for a relashionship. then he just walked away. the next day i come to school and all these kids are looking at me like i have 5 heads. i go over to my friends and they tell me that this guy told people that i was a lesbian and had naked pic. of myself online. ( which i dont) but anyways what should i doooooooo!!??
ok im 17 i’ll be 18 in about 8 months anyway im a lesbian and where i live there arnt any lesbians or bisexual girls around and its not a very open comunity and it bugs me cuzim the only girl out of my school who is like this and i really want a girlfriend
because then it would be alot easier in my life so should i try online dating? help i feel so alone and it makes me cry at night to i even started cutting myself but not over being lonly but for another reason so i really want a girlfriend someone please help me……..
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