I went to Provincetown for the first time in summer during a trip to Cape Cod. I enjoyed visiting the town, there was lot’s of great shops, but I think the GLBT scene was too much. They have rainbow flags draped all over the place and there are pictures of almost naked people on the street billboards that advertise online sex websites or gay dating sites. There’s a house on the hill near the Pilgrim Monument and they had big picture of a naked guy hanging on the balcony and the guys were standing out there half naked. In a store that has a lot of political stickers displayed on the window, there was a small picture of president Bush and a caption said “International Terrorist” (which is used as an anti American slogan at anti USA protests in other countries).
I think some people there give the town a gay people a bad image. It was so stereotypical of everything gay that I was turned off. If an open minded straight person went to visit, don’t you think they would be turned off? I would think so and I think that’s disappointing.
FYI I’m a liberal bisexual (so no, I’m not a right wing fundie complaining about Ptown). Maybe living in the mostly Republican suburbs of Dallas has gone to my head, but I think they over do it in Ptown.
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alright me and this guy have been bffs since we met in second grade, and in 6th we dated for a few months and then i broke up with him, because i really didnt feel a connection. Then i moved away and we lost touch, finally aroundthe summer time last year we met online again (we DO kno eachother in real life) and around november we started going out again, only in january he broke up with me for “family issues” only to find out he was with another girl 3 weeks later. and the second time we went out i still didnt have any “deep” feelings for him, only like a brother. But one day i discovered i had feelings for him and i was gonna call him and tell him and he told me he got married (married at 15! its too young) i have never known him to lie o me so i beleive he is married. and i think im in love with him, but i dont want to ruin a 8 year friendship just because i got feelings for him now, in fact i loved him so much im thinking about going “full lesbian (im bi anyway)” what could be the problem with that website? I have been with my boyfirend for 3 years. He told me that he is turned on by men, but that I had nothing to worry about because he loved me. Recently I found out that he has been chatting online with gay men, been frequenting a gay dating site and talking on the phone to a gay man. He hid it from me and denied it when I asked, but when I showed him proof, he told me he was curious and wanted someone to talk to. He has sworn never to cheat on me or to hide things from me again. Should I believe him or should I leave him? I am an open minded person and it doesn’t bother me that he is curious. What bothers me is that he lied to me and hid it from me. He says he is bisexual, but I am afraid he is really just in denial about being gay. I love him and I don’t want to lose him, but I am confused about what to do now. Do I stay with him or should I leave him? I hacked into my husbands email account and found out he has been signing up to dating services and singles websites, listing that he isnt married, (he is and we are expecting). It says he is looking for random hookups and etc but I dont know if he has actually met up with anyone. What do I do? I’ll be 28 tomorrow & never had a boyfriend. Until my early 20s, I struggled with shyness and major rejection fears, but I’ve realized that the only way to find love is to risk rejection. I have very conservative religious beliefs and wish to find someone that will respect that. I’ve been on 2 dates my entire life — when I was 18 and a few months ago. At the beginning of this year, I signed up on a Christian online dating site and have been pursuing that ever since. I’ve chatted and talked on the phone with several different guys…met one. He was interested, but I just didn’t feel it. Having a profile online has helped me believe in myself more. Numerous have told me how attractive I am on a physical, spiritual, and emotional level. I’ve recently lost 50 lbs and still plan to lose more. I wear a size 16/18 and get tons of compliments on my good fashion sense all the time. Teaching teenagers has brought me out of my shell! =D I’m just at a loss as to what to do? My friend told me she has been feeling like a lesbian, and met a girl online who she wants to meet in person. The girl she met is a lesbian, and has asked her if she is bi or been in a relationship with a girl before, and my friend hasn’t replied to her and wants to get my opinion. She has only been in relationships with men and is afraid she’ll never get to be one with a lesbian if they pre-judge her based on her history. Any thoughts or advice I can pass on to her? |
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