New to online dating sign up with some dating sites, Nigerian woman responds, 2 months later she wants to see me, being naive at the time I pay for her ticket, because of hawse-site I started looking for info after a late night chat session with this woman made me think, after searching I did not realize how bad dating scams was, found a list of thing to look for in a possible scam, my case seem to fit mostly all possible things outline, to end scam I thought that I was in I ask to see her on web cam, if it was a scam then there is no way for her to fake web cam live with pictures that was sent, she showed up on web cam & she was who she say she was, I don’t want 2 be taken further in if this is a scam, she is telling me she has everything & is ready, but they will not approve her trip until she pays them a bribe, in this case it being $800, I know Iv been a fool but if this is real I don’t want to be a even bigger fool, what should I do? what can she do? and what question should I ask
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I have met the most wonderful guy online. Crazy thing is I was bored and just looking for someone, anyone to chat with. He IM’ed me from the chatroom we were both in. We chatted for a few hours that first day and have spent hours each night on the phone since we met.
He’s on a visa that expires in 4.5 months. Last night he said that he plans to extend it. He also has no plans to return to the Middle East to live– just visit. He ran into some personal problems and moved to another state where he has family (we lived in the same state when we met online).
Last night he asked if we still like each other in the future would I be willing to marry him… I do like him alot and pretty much said yes.
The odd thing is he moved before we got a chance to meet face to face. I’ve lived in America my whole life and have only gone out with Christian, American guys. Today I realized I was essentially proposed to last night, but never went on a date or even seen him in person (I saw him on a webcam the 1st night we met).
I did a little research and discovered that Muslim men don’t date. I’m still trying to recover from that shock… He has been teaching me a little about Islam. I assumed at some point the guy and girl would date and get to know each other, but I’m seeing they don’t.
What’s more is if we do marry I fear telling my extended family that our wedding will pretty much be our first date…well, not first date, but just about. I’d like to go visit him once he gets settled in. My mom is the only person I’ve told about him. Most of my family lives out of state.
Am I correct that we prolly won’t date before we get married… if we are to marry?
I’m a male college student, and I have been considering online dating recently. There seems to be nobody in my area who meets my moral standards or shares my interests. Maybe it’s because I’m too serious (both about life in general and about relationships in particular), but there seems to be nobody who is morally or personally compatible with me. Therefore, I think I will try out online dating. I read about OKCupid and eHarmony, which are both free matchmaking sites. Are either of these a good idea for someone who is an intellectual, Christian, extremely conservative, looking for long-term relationships EXCLUSIVELY, and not flirty or looking for someone flirty? Also, it probably doesn’t matter…but I’m 19. Even so, like I said, I’m having problems. It’s not that I’m unattractive (TONS of girls think I’m “cute” or “adorable”), I’m not out of shape (I get plenty of activity), and I am not some freak (I have plenty of friends). That said, please give me some advice!
My friend told me she has been feeling like a lesbian, and met a girl online who she wants to meet in person. The girl she met is a lesbian, and has asked her if she is bi or been in a relationship with a girl before, and my friend hasn’t replied to her and wants to get my opinion. She has only been in relationships with men and is afraid she’ll never get to be one with a lesbian if they pre-judge her based on her history. Any thoughts or advice I can pass on to her?
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