Ok, heres the deal.
I’m brand new to online dating, and brand new to the bisexual scene. I met a gorgeous brunette through online “intimate” dating. We want to meet for coffee on monday, get to know each other a bit, but ultimately we want to wind up having sex. She has a steady boyfriend and has assured me that there will be no contact between me and her boyfriend but he wants to watch. This is fine by me, as we are all consenting adults. However, I do feel kind of weird having such casual sex even though its with another female. But on the other hand, I have had casual sex with other males in the past so..I’m really confused by all these mixed feelings.
How do you guys feel about a one night stand with the same-sex via online dating?
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I’m 25 years old and not long ago ended a 5-year elationship with a woman I’d been with since college. We just came to the conclusion we were better off as friends. No drama, no lies, no hard feelings, no cheating or any of that. We’re like best friends now except since we’ve split we’ve had sex a couple of times and still hang out, but it’s only because we’re both currently single and don’t think it’s really that big of a deal. If either of us started dating someone else, that arrangement would end. Before her, I had been with several other women but just one man. The guy was more or less a friendship with benefits and nothing more. It was never a “real” relationship. Right now though the prospect of actually dating a guy is kind of exciting to me, especially since I’ve never really given it a shot in terms of it being a legitimate relationship. I’ve not gone to a bar yet, but have noticed online that a lot of gay men seem turned off by the fact I’ve been with women the majority of my life. It seems like they think that means I don’t know what I want or I’m not relationship material or I will cheat on them with a woman, when that is not the case. I know I could fall in love with someone of either gender since I’m attracted to either. I just hate the assumptions people make, especially that I am promiscuous because I can like either gender, when it fact I am not like that at all. I’ve never cheated on anyone in my life. So my question is – If you found me attractive, would you give someone like me a chance, or would my past scare you off? I know this is not a dating site and I am not looking for a date online, this is a hypothetical question. Here’s my profile. I’m a bisexual woman in Atlanta looking to meet and mingle with other bisexual women. Any suggestions? im 23 and just married a great man and complelty in love with him. ive been sexually active since i was 19 and not to sound nasty but I LOVE MEN! everything about them, and i love sex with men, and not to sound concided but pretty good at it too. but about 2 years ago i started to notice women, i just like there nature, soft and pretty and clean and smell nice, dont get me wrong im very girly myself, but i get turned on by lesbian porn as well. one night i met this girl online and i went on a date with her she was very attracted to me but i didnt do anything and started to ignore her calls after, i got scared of further dates and what would happen. and ive made out with one of my best friends when we were drunk once, and i secretly liked it. i wouldnt mind expermenting with a girl but when i get the chance i never go through with it. i dont know? I’m 34 and have had a boyfriend for almost 8 years now. We are growing apart. Our relationship is very stressful. Since I was a teen, I’ve found myself attracted to women. I did “experiment” in college but didn’t date any women. If my bf and I split, I’d like to try dating a woman but I don’t know how to meet any! I really don’t want to go to a gay bar (I live an hour from Chicago) and just “hook up”. What are some other ways? I’m preety but I am feminine, would both “butch” and “girly” (I hope these terms are not offensive, if they are, please tell me the correct terms) women, possibly find me attractive? I’m also very shy at first around both women and men, is that a problem? I’d love to find a woman who loves animals just as much as I do and someone I can talk to about anything (this is not the case with any man I’ve ever dated). Please give me any advice you have! What about free dating services online, are there any good sites? Or is this a bad way to meet someone? I know this question has been asked a million times, but now it’s my turn! |
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