I’m 25 and I’ve never had a kiss, let alone a boyfriend. I live in a very small city where the guys just aren’t interested in and/or attracted to black women, particularly those that are dark-complected like myself. I’m smart, friendly, I have a nice figure, and I always get compliments on my smile.
I don’t like the bar scene, but I go to many professional functions. I’ve tried online dating, but most guys don’t even list black women in their preferences. And the few guys that respond are usually your typical no job baby momma types complete with the shiny grill or they’re much older, which I’m not really for.
I’ve been told that it takes time, but I’m almost thirty! What should I do? Am I too picky? Are men intimidated? am I just not attractive enough to even be approached?
