Online Dating Blog » Can’t http://onlinedatingblog.org Online Dating Made Easy Thu, 13 Jan 2011 05:09:05 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Why Cant I Get A Girlfriend Using Online Dating? http://onlinedatingblog.org/why-cant-i-get-a-girlfriend-using-online-dating/ http://onlinedatingblog.org/why-cant-i-get-a-girlfriend-using-online-dating/#comments Sun, 21 Feb 2010 13:43:32 +0000 online dating review http://onlinedatingblog.org/why-cant-i-get-a-girlfriend-using-online-dating/ Ive tryed so many online dating sites like match, friend jungle, plenty of fish wich I think sucks, and other dating sites. And idk why but I cant get one girl to email me and I did this for acouple years and never got one email idk whats wrong with me and why girls . . . → Read More: Why Cant I Get A Girlfriend Using Online Dating?]]> Ive tryed so many online dating sites like match, friend jungle, plenty of fish wich I think sucks, and other dating sites. And idk why but I cant get one girl to email me and I did this for acouple years and never got one email idk whats wrong with me and why girls dont like me. I write them emails first and everything.
So I was hoping someone out there could look at one of my profiles and tell me whats wrong with it.

http://www.friendjungle.com/gemininoir/

]]> http://onlinedatingblog.org/why-cant-i-get-a-girlfriend-using-online-dating/feed/ 17 Why Can’t People Date Online For Free? http://onlinedatingblog.org/why-cant-people-date-online-for-free-2/ http://onlinedatingblog.org/why-cant-people-date-online-for-free-2/#comments Fri, 25 Dec 2009 03:36:53 +0000 online dating review http://onlinedatingblog.org/why-cant-people-date-online-for-free-2/ there are free sites…http://www.neofriends.comhttp://www.123personals.comhttp://www.singlevillages.comhttp://www.2rateme.com

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]]> http://onlinedatingblog.org/why-cant-people-date-online-for-free/feed/ 6 Is There Any Way You Can Check Your Employment Records Online For Free? Can’t Remember Dates Of Employment. http://onlinedatingblog.org/is-there-any-way-you-can-check-your-employment-records-online-for-free-cant-remember-dates-of-employment/ http://onlinedatingblog.org/is-there-any-way-you-can-check-your-employment-records-online-for-free-cant-remember-dates-of-employment/#comments Thu, 10 Dec 2009 09:21:12 +0000 online dating review http://onlinedatingblog.org/is-there-any-way-you-can-check-your-employment-records-online-for-free-cant-remember-dates-of-employment/ Online, not that I am aware of. However, you can get a fair bit of employment information from the Social Security Department . However, I don’t believe it is free any more, but for a smallish fee (and a fairly long wait) you can get employment history data that might be useful to you. . . . → Read More: Is There Any Way You Can Check Your Employment Records Online For Free? Can’t Remember Dates Of Employment.]]> Online, not that I am aware of.
However, you can get a fair bit of employment information from the Social Security Department . However, I don’t believe it is free any more, but for a smallish fee (and a fairly long wait) you can get employment history data that might be useful to you.
Your former employers are required to keep records for a period of time, and perhaps you can get some information from them.

]]> http://onlinedatingblog.org/is-there-any-way-you-can-check-your-employment-records-online-for-free-cant-remember-dates-of-employment/feed/ 12 Is Online Dating Creepy? Are The People You Meet Losers Who Can’t Get A Date The Usual Way And Wind Up There? http://onlinedatingblog.org/is-online-dating-creepy-are-the-people-you-meet-losers-who-cant-get-a-date-the-usual-way-and-wind-up-there/ http://onlinedatingblog.org/is-online-dating-creepy-are-the-people-you-meet-losers-who-cant-get-a-date-the-usual-way-and-wind-up-there/#comments Wed, 25 Nov 2009 21:33:42 +0000 online dating review http://onlinedatingblog.org/is-online-dating-creepy-are-the-people-you-meet-losers-who-cant-get-a-date-the-usual-way-and-wind-up-there/ I’m asking because a buddy of mine signed up for a free dating site and he had a few dates with different girls, and every single time he had a funny story the next day about the girl either weighing 40 pounds more than in the picture she put up, or she was 10 . . . → Read More: Is Online Dating Creepy? Are The People You Meet Losers Who Can’t Get A Date The Usual Way And Wind Up There?]]> I’m asking because a buddy of mine signed up for a free dating site and he had a few dates with different girls, and every single time he had a funny story the next day about the girl either weighing 40 pounds more than in the picture she put up, or she was 10 years older than the pic or had an old boyfriend she was crying over when they went to dinner. Stuff like that. Is that how it is when you do online dating? All funky? After hearing his stories, I don’t think I’d ever want to try it.

]]> http://onlinedatingblog.org/is-online-dating-creepy-are-the-people-you-meet-losers-who-cant-get-a-date-the-usual-way-and-wind-up-there/feed/ 6 Why Can’t I Get A Normal Woman? http://onlinedatingblog.org/why-cant-i-get-a-normal-woman/ http://onlinedatingblog.org/why-cant-i-get-a-normal-woman/#comments Sun, 20 Sep 2009 03:13:01 +0000 online dating review http://onlinedatingblog.org/why-cant-i-get-a-normal-woman/ seems like every woman i date is weird, last one had bipolar disorder, one before that was some whacked out christian that wouldn’t even let me listen to rock music cause she says it’s devil worshipping?, and one before that has like 100 other boyfriends so i’m not into being her pawn, why do . . . → Read More: Why Can’t I Get A Normal Woman?]]> seems like every woman i date is weird, last one had bipolar disorder, one before that was some whacked out christian that wouldn’t even let me listen to rock music cause she says it’s devil worshipping?, and one before that has like 100 other boyfriends so i’m not into being her pawn, why do women mess up my life so much like this, i went to college got 2 degrees, i work a good job i’ve been with for 8 years making 60 plus a year and i come from a good family and i live on my own but you know what, i’m lonely, it sucks bigtime, i come online every night out of boredom, if there is a decent woman out there im me or something (breakingbenfan1980 on yahoo IM) and chat with me, never know might be a keeper lol…i’m 27 by the way and i have a pic too

]]> http://onlinedatingblog.org/why-cant-i-get-a-normal-woman/feed/ 8 He Says He Loves Me But He Can’t Do A Long Distance Relationship? Please Help.? http://onlinedatingblog.org/he-says-he-loves-me-but-he-cant-do-a-long-distance-relationship-please-help/ http://onlinedatingblog.org/he-says-he-loves-me-but-he-cant-do-a-long-distance-relationship-please-help/#comments Thu, 10 Sep 2009 03:08:55 +0000 online dating review http://onlinedatingblog.org/he-says-he-loves-me-but-he-cant-do-a-long-distance-relationship-please-help/ Hiya. Um, bit of a long story. Basically, I met this guy online back in about…March 2008? He owns this forum and we didn’t talk very much until it was his birthday in June, I made him a youtube vid just saying “Happy birthday =D” and stuff, I didn’t really think anything of it . . . → Read More: He Says He Loves Me But He Can’t Do A Long Distance Relationship? Please Help.?]]> Hiya. Um, bit of a long story.
Basically, I met this guy online back in about…March 2008? He owns this forum and we didn’t talk very much until it was his birthday in June, I made him a youtube vid just saying “Happy birthday =D” and stuff, I didn’t really think anything of it until he commented on it and said that I looked nice and thankyou very much. I don’t know what happened but I suddenly found myself blushing like mad. As the days went on, I became more and more attached to him, I don’t know how it happened, but I couldn’t stop thinking about him and suddenly found myself falling in love. I *knew* it was love as I hadn’t felt as strong as this about my previous relationships. I asked him if he would like to meet up at the end of July and he came down here for the day. He lives in London and I live in Peterborough. The train Journey isn’t too bad, it’s just that it costs alot. I’m having my driving test soon so hopefully I can pass that and it would cut down on having to use public transport.
Anyway…When he came down, we just clicked, everything was PERFECT. His kisses were the best and he had such nice hugs. We had a chat about whether to move into a relationship but he sad “I’d love to ask you out but I’m not sure…” He’d previously been in a LDR with a girl who lives in America, they never met but it ended with a bit of a bang because of the distance. I feel that from what he has told me about his previous LDRs has knocked his confidence in them. I have had quite a lot of LDRs myself, except for my last one. I tend to feel quite comfortable with LDRs because it’s really exciting going to see someone after a time.
Anyway, he also wanted to keep what we had secret online. He didn’t want his ex to find out who is also on the forum we talk on, he thought that it would hurt her so I was like “Fair enough” even though it hurt me so much. But, I was happy that I could still act like a couple with him, even if it was secret.
However, this weekend, I went to a convention in London to meet up with him for the second time, and I met with some forum friends aswell. It was really good and I was allowed to stay at his house over night and travel back home on sunday.
When we were at his, we began acting like a couple again and were kissing but then he paused to say something like “I’m not sure whether to go any further” and I replied “Whatever you want, I want”. He said he would like to stop and I accepted that (he is a Christian, so, his thoughts on intimacy are slightly different to mine). But then we went into a very detailed and in-depth discussion about us. We started talking about school and what comes after that. We have this year left at school and then he goes off to University, I am not going myself. He said after Uni he has another course in order to get the career he wants. He also said “apparently you find the one at University”. And I have to admit, when Uni comes into the picture, most LDRs break apart, it happened to my brother.
Anyway, he said he wasn’t sure about us dating because he will be in education for so long and it would take a while for us to be able to move to the same location together. He went on to explain I was worth everything and I was too good for him but because of Uni and the distance, we should move on. That included stopping the kissing and intimacy when together and also how we act online together. This broke my heart, I was fine hanging onto what we had even though it was secret…he said that we were neither commited nor non commited which I agreed with, but I don’t want to look for anyone else, I want to wait for him…am I sounding too desperate? I truely would do *ANYTHING* to have him. I even went to Church with him and his family in the morning. It actually taught me a good lesson, but I won’t go into that.
I need some advice, please can you help me? It’s tearing me apart. It all feels like a bad dream. When I’m with him, I just feel so happy, we get on so well like we’ve known each other 5 years even though we’ve met twice.
Thanks,
Kat xox

]]> http://onlinedatingblog.org/he-says-he-loves-me-but-he-cant-do-a-long-distance-relationship-please-help/feed/ 6 Why Can’t I Be Happy Being Single? http://onlinedatingblog.org/why-cant-i-be-happy-being-single/ http://onlinedatingblog.org/why-cant-i-be-happy-being-single/#comments Tue, 08 Sep 2009 03:18:13 +0000 online dating review http://onlinedatingblog.org/why-cant-i-be-happy-being-single/ I am almost 25. Pretty much since I was 18, I was involved in some kind of guy drama. I’m past the drama point, and I can honestly say I have only had one serious relationship, it lasted for 3 years. It ended badly, but this isn’t the point of my question. I am . . . → Read More: Why Can’t I Be Happy Being Single?]]> I am almost 25. Pretty much since I was 18, I was involved in some kind of guy drama. I’m past the drama point, and I can honestly say I have only had one serious relationship, it lasted for 3 years. It ended badly, but this isn’t the point of my question. I am totally single now, and I am new Christian, so I don’t want to waste any time on casual dating, I want to wait until God brings the man into my life who will be my husband. I’m working full time, so that takes alot of time, and I also go to school online. So, its not like I don’t have stuff to keep me occupied. I just feel anxious, like how long am I going to be single, and what if it isn’t God’s plan for me to get married? Just wondering if anyone has anything helpful to say that will make me happy and content being single right now! Thanks!

]]> http://onlinedatingblog.org/why-cant-i-be-happy-being-single/feed/ 19 My Husband Lives In The Past, Lies About Stupid Things And Can’t Be Real With Me! Help!? http://onlinedatingblog.org/my-husband-lives-in-the-past-lies-about-stupid-things-and-cant-be-real-with-me-help/ http://onlinedatingblog.org/my-husband-lives-in-the-past-lies-about-stupid-things-and-cant-be-real-with-me-help/#comments Mon, 07 Sep 2009 15:04:51 +0000 online dating review http://onlinedatingblog.org/my-husband-lives-in-the-past-lies-about-stupid-things-and-cant-be-real-with-me-help/ First of all, I love my husband! We have been together for almost 5 years (off and on) and have been married for 6 months. During the 5 years we have been through much, from infidelity ( not on my part) and a lot of dishonesty. Together we have worked through much, or so . . . → Read More: My Husband Lives In The Past, Lies About Stupid Things And Can’t Be Real With Me! Help!?]]> First of all, I love my husband! We have been together for almost 5 years (off and on) and have been married for 6 months. During the 5 years we have been through much, from infidelity ( not on my part) and a lot of dishonesty. Together we have worked through much, or so I believed. I lost two children in a car accident, which he really never addresses and throws his going to their grave in my face. And then there are the finances, which his money is his, my money is ours.
Two years ago, I ended my relationship with his mother because I didn’t feel she was being honest with me and created her own version of situations, with her own spin once I ended our relationship! It’s not true, but as she almost destroyed her own relationship with her son, and they do not talk now, she had to put everything thing on me in an attempt to save her relationship with her son. She claims to be a devout Christian, but she is the most evil woman I know.
Last night, my husband brought up that whole situation again. It’s been two years and I truly don’t wish to discuss his mother! He had heard my side of the story so many times and honestly it is hurtful to me. I question why he keeps bringing it up, but I am to NEVER bring up his mistakes wherein he hurt me terribly!
There are times I find that my husband lies to me about stupid stuff. So I had him tracked by a private when I was out of town on business. He told me he was home but was tracke to his job. Why lie? I don’t care if he goes to work on a Saturday. Other than I’m told he is making calls from work and on the internet talking to women. (He met alot of women online before we met and cheated with some while we were dating). I am concerned. But my husband denies things even knowing he is caught. Then, he thinks he has a right to bring up the past like its acceptable.
Any suggestions??? I am at my witt’s end and I really think I need to end my marriage!

]]> http://onlinedatingblog.org/my-husband-lives-in-the-past-lies-about-stupid-things-and-cant-be-real-with-me-help/feed/ 7 I Cant Seem To Find Another Girlfriend After Dating My Ex, How Can I Get Over Her? http://onlinedatingblog.org/i-cant-seem-to-find-another-girlfriend-after-dating-my-ex-how-can-i-get-over-her/ http://onlinedatingblog.org/i-cant-seem-to-find-another-girlfriend-after-dating-my-ex-how-can-i-get-over-her/#comments Tue, 25 Aug 2009 15:13:59 +0000 online dating review http://onlinedatingblog.org/i-cant-seem-to-find-another-girlfriend-after-dating-my-ex-how-can-i-get-over-her/ Ok, please just read my story… I met this girl in highschool my senior year, she was perfect. Beautiful, extremely smart, and treated me great. We had fun, i wasnt the best boyfriend, mind you i never had a girlfriend i didnt know how to be a boyfriend. She had just gotten out of . . . → Read More: I Cant Seem To Find Another Girlfriend After Dating My Ex, How Can I Get Over Her?]]> Ok, please just read my story…
I met this girl in highschool my senior year, she was perfect. Beautiful, extremely smart, and treated me great. We had fun, i wasnt the best boyfriend, mind you i never had a girlfriend i didnt know how to be a boyfriend. She had just gotten out of a 4 year relationship with a guy she had been seeing since preteen. Despite all this i never seen any problems in our relationship. The time had came for us to go to college, she went to an all girlschool, i was taking the year off so i stayed home. She was only 10 miles away so i commuted a few times to spend the day with her. One nite we shared a passionate foreplay session, i was a virgin and she knew this. She asked me if i was ready, and i said yeah. But i wasnt, i was really scared, and i felt unsure. I couldnt even get it up once it came down to actually getting it in lol. Sooo that was the last time i seen her. I went home that night called her old her i loved her. 1 week later i found out she was cheating on me for weeks with a girl that looked like a guy. She turned into a lesbian. She stopped calling me, she told me the truth that she wasnt inlove with me online, and she was sorry. I spent 7 months with this girl, i loved her with all my heart. I have not seen her face to face since the break up. I was shocked hurt, and depressed. Its been 4 years since… I have not been with, touched, or even kissed another girl since then. I really wish i could find someone new, but i cant. I dont know why! Im really a cute handsome guy, everyone thinks im gay, family friends etc. They cant understand how someone like me can remain single for so long. Sometimes i wonder if im still hung up on my ex, but i feel like im over it. I just need a new fling, which i cant i find no matter how hard i try. I dont go out, i have very little friends as a result. I dont hangout at night, i dont party. I go to school, work, and home. I have social anxiety to the max.
I just want to find a girl. What should i do?

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