There are no singles at church and the online dating thing is not working so far.
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Hello. I’m twenty years old and have been very depressed for years. I am looking to find someone to date, but no one wants me, so I must be undesirable. I’ve tried online dating and meeting men in classes at school, but nothing. I’m considering changing what church I go to right now even because I’m just so lost at this point. I’ve always been a Christian, but as you see in my other questions i’m thinking of switching to LDS. I have no community and no love here. I don’t know what to do with myself. Two years ago I found this person through an online dating website, and embarked on an e-friendship. We became very close and found ourselves trusting each other with every aspect of each others life and grew to have feelings for each other. We decided to meet 3 months ago and instantly fell in love with each other. Our relationship and love for each is other is so strong and like nothing I have expereinced before. Unfortunately she now believes that we can’t be together unless I become a Christian but still feels exactely the same about me. I have always been honest about my faith, and supported her with hers including going to church and being open minded. I am geneuinely interested, but don’t want to rush and don’t think this should be the end of our relationship. I thought God loved everyone (Christian or not) and that everything happens for a reason? Is our relationship that wrong? Surely things can work out, even if I don’t have the same faith, or the same strengh of faith? I am 21, a Christian, and a virgin. I really wanted to meet a cute, sweet, girl who is a virgin, but it’s nearly impossible. We don’t have a singles club at my church, all of my guy friends have already done it (outside of a religious few), I don’t know any girls at my college (they are’nt Christian and have had sex and bfs), and I don’t have any girls as friends to introduce me to girls. I just want to meet someone to have a decent relationship with, not for sex, until marriage. If there is anyone out there looking for this, please feel free to respond. I’m very patient, but I’m starting to lose hope. I am 21, a Christian, and a virgin. I really wanted to meet a cute, sweet, girl who is a virgin, but it’s nearly impossible. We don’t have a singles club at my church, all of my guy friends have already done it (outside of a religious few), I don’t know any girls at my college (they aren’t Christian and have had sex and bfs), and I don’t have any girls as friends to introduce me to girls. I just want to meet someone to have a decent relationship with, not for sex, until marriage. If there is anyone out there looking for this, please feel free to respond. I’m very patient, but I’m starting to lose hope. I am 21, a Christian, and a virgin. I really wanted to meet a cute, sweet, girl who is a virgin, but it’s nearly impossible. We don’t have a singles club at my church, all of my guy friends have already done it (outside of a religious few), I don’t know any girls at my college (they are’nt Christian and have had sex and bfs), and I don’t have any girls as friends to introduce me to girls. I just want to meet someone to have a decent relationship with, not for sex, until marriage. If there is anyone out there looking for this, please feel free to respond. I’m very patient, but I’m starting to lose hope. I have no interest in online dating sites, whatsoever! That totally defeats the purpose at showing someone who you really are, and I’m not trying to hide anything because I know I am not perfect. The thing is, I’m sick of sitting at home on the weekends, (my boyfriend broke up with me almost 4 months ago, and I’m getting ready to move on….long story….) I’m just a little lonely and I’m wondering why guys always want good women, but when it comes time to date us, they totally turn it around and end up hating the “good” girls. I’m not at all saying I’m perfect, but I’m just looking a good Christian guy who doesn’t smoke (preferrably), doesn’t drink, and respects my wishes to wait on certain things, and who is always willing to be there for me when it’s necessary!!!! I know God is working in my life for that, but I just want to quit staying home all the time. I really don’t have friends to hang out with, so I stay home! I’m a happy, outgoing person, but I feel like I’m locked away! |
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