I’ve met a guy I’ve met through an online dating site and have moved in to his city a few months after we’ve begun talking VIA instant messaging. Hes a very sweet guy and I like him very much. We’ve made out and got intimate a few times. We hold hands in the car while we listen to music and hes open to displays of affection in private. However when we are in public, in front of his parents, or friends, he would only introduce me as a friend and would deflect my attempts to hold his hand. His friend is coming to town this week and he invited me to hang out with them, but I feel as if I do I’ll just be introduced only as his ‘friend’ which makes me feel a little hurt. Besides, I think it’ll be good for him to hang out with his budds cause hes been working so hard. I just know what to interpret from it and if I should continue with this relationship or take it serious if this is how it might be in the long term. I don’t want to force him out, its his choice. Feedback appreciated!
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I’ve been trying to date again since split up in November and tried online site..met four guys in the last month..they were camp as Christmas and so far back in the closet they were in Narnia…what do they think they are doing? I feel really let down and used and just can’t fancy someone like that. They were all pretty boys too..but as soon as they spoke and started waving their hands around, rolling their eyes like wild horses and mincing it killed the attraction..I think it’s disgusting really to meet women and try to use them because they are kind hearted..anyone had similar experiences? am so confused. I have been talking to this guy online and he is coming to meet me this Friday. He is a really nice guy but I am not sure if I should pursue this relationship. All my life I have been attracted to women. When I was a little girl I played Dr with all of my girlfriends. I can never openly date a woman . My family is very religious and would disown me. My family is my everything and I cant lose them. I have dated guys off and on but I never really feel that deep connection with them and it hasn’t gone far past a couple of dates. Deep down inside I think I am a lesbian. I know this guy Ive been talking to is going to want to hookup and I have not been with anyone in a year because I don’t want to hurt anyone with my own confusion and desire. Ive been getting lonely and need to be close to someone and this is why I signed up for the dating sight. I don’t know if I should just put my feelings for women to the side and just be with this guy. HELP!!!! |
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