No Incoming Mail From Dating Site. No Mail Coming Into Bulk All Of A Sudden. What Happened?

I have 3 different e-mail addy’s for different purposes. All of a sudden in one of my accounts there is 0 Bulk mail coming in when there used to be thousands! What gave me a heads up to this is when I stopped getting mail from an online dating site whereas I used to get it daily. Where is it going? Why did this happen? My other accounts are fine (all with Yahoo) Stop laughing – I’m not that bad! LOL! It’s the fact that ZERO items are going into Bulk that is tipping me off.

Okay, So I’m 32 Y/o, Good-looking, Good Job, Just Now Coming Out Of …?

Okay, so I’m 32 y/o, good-looking, good job, just now coming out of …?
three, four years of depression for a lot of different reasons. But since that time I’ve pretty been alone for most of the time. Consistently alone. Sure I’ve got a handful of good friends but, for the most part, I’m just now coming out of a self-created shell from some years back.
That being said…I managed to push a lot of good people away over the years and that’s what’s left me alone.
Now I want to meet new people. How do I do that? I could easily hang out with my old friends, but all they do is the same old sh!t. I could go online and start dating from match or yahoo, but I’ve done that – screamingly well might I add.
Now what? How do you meet new people when your life is fresh again? When your future looks bright and you want to share that with someone?
I’m not Christian, so church won’t cut it. I own my own business and won’t date employees.
I’m stumped. Any suggestions? Thank you! :)

My 34th Birthday Is Coming Up. Why Am I Not Happy?

I will be turning 34 in exactly a month. I am not really looking forward to my birthday. It just seems now that as you get older it is harder to find that special someone to be in your life. I have dated girls in the past so it is not like that I ever dated someone. I keep hearing from everyone that it has to come natural when you meet someone. But how do you do that? That someone isnt going to be coming to knock on your front door. You have to go out and find that person. I refuse to sit at home all the time. I try to get involved into so many activities that I can. I have joined a young professionals organization and the people there are around my age or a couple of years younger. The girls there are either married or already have boyfriends. Same goes for a dancing school that I belong to. I take ballroom dancing to keep busy and for exercise. But in that respect I would like to meet someone there. That place also there is a wide mixture of ages. The girls that are around my age range are either married or have a boyfriend. The other part of age range in the dancing school is way older than I am. I went to a couple of Christian singles events and there again the women that I meet are primarily 10-20 years older than I am. There were a few women around my age in early 30s but they are divorced with 2 kids and I dont want to take on that responsibility. I dont want to try online dating sites because a frined of mind told me that alot of the singles there are divorced or you will not necessarily be talking to the opposite sex. Is it that I am too old for someone young right now or what? Will I ever find that someone? I am not a bum or anything. I have a great career going for me and all. I like to go to events like festivals and stuff. But it isn’t any fun unless you have someone to go with? Will my luck ever change. Please help.