My Boyfriend Decided To Turn Straight, Is He Trying To Get Rid Of Me Or Can This Really Be His Way Of Coping?

He confessed his love to me profusely, but since we live far from each other (adjacent countries) he said he can’t handle the distance and he won’t be with another man so he wants us to be “special friends” (he defines that as doing everything lovers do but without calling it love) and he will look for a woman. I see him online in a gay dating site everyday, where is he gonna get a woman there?
What should I do?

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How Dumb Would It Be If I Decided…?

to walk up and say ‘hi’ to a random girl downtown at lunch and ask her if she wants to eat lunch with me? Just casually say ‘hey, are you eating lunch with anyone right now, you wanna join me, I just don’t feel like going back to my desk and eating there’. Is that totally too weird?
I am a 28 year old single Christian guy who got his heart stomped on about a year ago by his ex-fiance, and I have just now started to get back into the stupid ‘dating game’, which I hate because I am not a typical ‘guy’ who wants to get ‘laid’ by random women all the time.
Just looking for a good conversation and I know most women are put off by my type because they think all guys are the same and we all have alterior motives. How do I make it clear that I just want to start a friendship maybe and see where it goes and I like talking to girls way more than guys anyway because it seems to me they are more sincere and genuine, and they don’t have weiners, ha!
I am not desperate (yet), so I am not going to do the online thing like everyone keeps suggesting, and bars suck for good girls. I go to two seperate churchs but that’s even tough to find single ones because most come with their mates already. What do I do?

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