Doing It Online.. Advice/experience??

Okay, I’m really hoping someone has some experience with this.
I am dating my boyfriend online as he lives in a seperate country. (please don’t give me the “LDRs don’t work” comment, thanks)
We have been ‘together’ about 2 months so far but have been talking for longer. He lost his virginity when he was 14ish and I haven’t lost mine yet. (we are both almost 17). If we can’t see each other for about a year, the time is bound to come up (my guess is soon) where he will want to ‘do it online’ if you get what I mean. I am happy to talk about it all with him, its just that because I don’t have much experience, I’m not completely sure with how to say it, you know, how to put it in words for him.
I trust him completely, he knows that I am still a virgin and he respects all of that.
Looking for advice or tips from anyone who’s been through this before? Thanks

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They Like My Pic, Personal Ads Profile, And We Chat A Bit And They Stop Replying. What Am I Doing Wrong ?

with the personal ads scene that makes people stop contacting me? Although I have a fair amount of friends, being snubbed isn’t the exact ego-booster. Can anyone shine any lights or give me any tips on online dating? Thank you in advance

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I’m Thinking Of Doing The Online Dating Thing, Has Anyone Had Good Experiences Or Tips For The Novice?

I have several friends who met their partners online, and both are still very happy years later. In both cases I think they were very honest about who they were, and had been on enough dates to know when it was working.
So I’d suggest you take your time, expect to have a few bad/not so great dates, but give it a chance to meet the right one.
Good luck!

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I’m Thinking Of Doing The Online Dating Thing, Has Anyone Had Good Experiences Or Tips For The Novice?

I have several friends who met their partners online, and both are still very happy years later. In both cases I think they were very honest about who they were, and had been on enough dates to know when it was working.
So I’d suggest you take your time, expect to have a few bad/not so great dates, but give it a chance to meet the right one.
Good luck!

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Am I Doing The Right Thing. Please Be Serious. I Am Dating A Older Guy. I’m 25. He’s 60.?

I’m Bi. Male. 25 yrs old. I have always suspected. I have 2 ex-girlfriends. And for the past 5 weeks (or weekends since thats when we meet) I have been dating a guy. I found him online (gay.com).I like him. He’s Nice. Intelluctual. Takes me out everytime. And yes He is Handsome inspite of his age and energitic.
Thing is he keeps saying that He is falling for me and never planned that.That he is in love with me but that I can get better younger guys etc. And also, 2-3 guys have been approaching him for sex(young guys-25 and above. Its true). But that this thing we have can’t last. that I will find someone else and thats inevitable and that he understands when that happens.
My fear is that he may be right. Also he only meets me on weekends at his town house and is too busy to meet me anytime else. For all his talk of understanding, of having a deep connection between us; he keeps giving me the impression that he can have other guys (through his talk). that we should keep ourself free?

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I Am 19 Years Of Age, Gay And Want A Date, How Do I Go About Doing It?

Okay so basically, I want to know how gay people meet people to get with. I mean I tried going to a gay club with my gay friend but I think people might have seen me like I was with him. He doesn’t want to date me but I geuss I go out with him because I don’t know who else to take with me and going by myself feels a bit sad. don’t you think? I mean have u ever been by yourself?
More to the point do you think I should go with my girlfriends because I’m thinking that because the guys are gay it’ll be easier to get the attention of a guy I like?
I’m not after a one night stand and I am trying metting guys through online dating but want to keep my ways of getting a date diverse.
Oh and I am now on my summer holidays so want to know what one to one love between a guy have never had it been given back to me. I do love myself, but would like to experience love with another.
Thanx

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Never Been In A Relationship At 28…what Am I Doing Wrong?

I’ll be 28 tomorrow & never had a boyfriend. Until my early 20s, I struggled with shyness and major rejection fears, but I’ve realized that the only way to find love is to risk rejection. I have very conservative religious beliefs and wish to find someone that will respect that. I’ve been on 2 dates my entire life — when I was 18 and a few months ago. At the beginning of this year, I signed up on a Christian online dating site and have been pursuing that ever since. I’ve chatted and talked on the phone with several different guys…met one. He was interested, but I just didn’t feel it. Having a profile online has helped me believe in myself more. Numerous have told me how attractive I am on a physical, spiritual, and emotional level. I’ve recently lost 50 lbs and still plan to lose more. I wear a size 16/18 and get tons of compliments on my good fashion sense all the time. Teaching teenagers has brought me out of my shell! =D I’m just at a loss as to what to do?

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