Online Dating Blog

The reason I ask this, is because I went on this “date” with this girl. I drove about an hour north to go meet her. We had been talking online and things seemed to be going well. But when I met her, she seemed stand offish, and at the end of the night, there was this awkwardness about kissing her. I told her that I’m not really an aggressor type and that I don’t generally make a first move unless I know it’s ok. She said it was, so I kissed her.
But then she hasn’t spoken with me again. So I’m confused. She seemed to like me, and encouraged me to kiss her. But now? Nothing.
Do girls really expect us all to act like Shane off the L Word or something? And be all cocky and act like a player? Is this what girls really expect butches/FTM’s to be like? Because sorry, but if that’s the case, I’ll be highly disappointing. I abhor Shane’s character.