Fellow Lgbt People: Are You Sick Of The Gay Dating Scene?

I am.
I was on a dating website a few days ago, and a several guys messaged me. Guess what each one of them wanted? Sex. When I told them I wasn’t like that, and that I was looking for a relationship they stopped talking to me.
This doesn’t just happen online all the time, but in person as well. I’ve been to several gay organizations at my university, and they do the exact same thing. The guys seem to be so obsessed with sex and are extremely shallow.
They have a lot of parties. But these parties aren’t innocent. They have strippers and people nearly naked at them. It’s so sleazy. Nothing moralistic about them. No love in them. Just a bunch of drunk people playing with each other.
Does anyone else find this disturbing? Are there any gay guys who aren’t like this, or am I just alone? lol
I ask this because it depresses me a bit…
Your thoughts?

Fellow Lesbians, I Need Your Help!?

I often get frustrated living a gay life in a straight society so I’ve decided to create a new website for lesbians. It will have information on everything like lesbian nightlife, books, films, dating, travel and looooads more.
I want this site to rank high with search engines but sadly a lot of the people looking up ‘lesbian’ are dirty men searching for porn…. not my target audience! So if you’re looking for lesbian information online, what do you search under?
Also I need your input on naming my site. Here are my top ideas:
lesbian-survival-guide.com
lesbian-lifestyle.com
les-b-lesbians.com
My favourite is the first one but I need some opinions.
I’m creating this site for people like you so please let me know if you have any ideas or advice. thanks
Hopefully one day this will be the top rated lesbian site out there!