She has been dating a guy online for 3 years. I told her shes wasting her time and she wont meet him. I dont know why shes a very attractive girl and deserves more. Also she has been holding out from having a sex life. I have plenty of friends thsat would be interested in her. She is a very beautiful girl and has a professional career.
Okay, so Im going to college and some of the people going to my college group chat with webcams, kind of like ichat and skype. Well, I’m a guy and met this dude on there going to my college. I’m kind of bi-curious to bi, and I find this guy attractive and cool. Here are some facts about him:
The college were going to is a christian college btw.
-He likes to skate
- Plays videogames, mostly Call of Duty 4
- Had ADHD, not severe, but mild
- didnt have much friends and was nerdy in middle school to high school
- strong christian who goes on missions trips
Stuff he has said to me:
- In a group chat with 2 other girls, i was joking around and said that they werent my friends as a joke, and he said “But I love you..” he was joking i think
- In the same chat, i was explaining how my guy friend invited me to stay over his house a couple days before college begins because im flying there early, and he says “Well, you can stay at my house forever” I think he was kidding on the first two
- We chatted online for 4 hours at one point, and we were talking about what qualities we look for i na girlfriend, and i said how i have a hard time finding girlfriends because theyre not as perfect as me. I was being sarcastic, and he says”Well, if you were a girl……” implying if i was girl hed date me, but i said “huh”, and he said “haha jk”
- And one time in the chat i was afk, and i came back and said “Im back, did u miss me?” and he said “Like a fat kid loves cake.” and i said “Thats the sweetest thing any one has ever said to me” as a joke, and he responded with the face “:P”.
Also, no one was on ichat but he invited me for a one on one video chat, which was kind of weird because were both guys.
He has shown the 2 girls and me in the chatroom himself with his shirt off, and was posing side ways and all that too…
Do u guys think he might havea crush on me, or is bi curious? we talk about girls alot and stuff, i just try to do it to make him jealous, but today wen we talked he was being really passive with me, but i think he was busy playing video games…
Ok…My friend dated this boy for about 9 months then they broke up. She did her thing with 1 guy(whom she was dating at the time) and he did his thing with several women. Now when she goes to get back with the guy she had been dating for 9 months..he says no he cant be with her because she has been tainted with another man’s touch??wtf?? So ne wayz she is now on this life long misson to get him back. He already has a new girlfriend but she still is pursuing him. Like even bringing the dude food and all. She gets online and writes these deranged notes…..like “I can’t wait til the birth of our children and the day he becomes my husband. ill so happy.” She says God has already set them together and she will just wait. I know he helped her get saved and become a better Christian and all but u dont have to dedicate your life to him… do that for God.She kinda sees me as the anti-Christ bcuz Im telling her she is losing her mind…but what do yall think? SERIOUSLY!
Okay we have been friends since we were born and lately it’s been okay even though I haven’t seen her in a couple of months. I briefly talked to her last night on instant messenger. She said “I miss you” but she never calls me or asks me to do anything. Ever since she’s had this boyfriend. Ugh. I mean he’s such a man whore. You know those guys who have tons of “girls as friends” and flirts with every single one of them and in the past he has dated at least two of them? Yeah.
Anyway what really made me mad in the first place was when we went to this dance at school. We were with him and my friend (this was before she was dating him) and some of his “girl friends”. Everyone there was grinding aka dry humping each other and I felt uncomfortable because I don’t like to dance like that and I think it’s trashy.
So she starts dancing and flirting with him and such. My other friend grinds with him as well. I was kinda mad because I knew my friend liked him so it was sooo annoying. Then this other girl one of his “girl friends” says to my friend “I like him, I’m going to ask him to prom”.
So my friend gets pissed, not majorly but she’s upset. So they start humping each other on the dance floor while I comfort my friend. This other dumb annoying girl was coming up to me all night saying “you’re quiet, you’re quiet” and i was getting upset. I wanted to go home so bad. So I asked my friend, “Can I use your phone I would like to go home.”
She’s now okay with the man whore and wants to stay and hump him as well. So she sighs and says “yeah”. So I call and I’m like “I need to use your phone so I know when they’ll be here etc.”
She says “No, I really want to go and dance so can I please just have it back?”
Although it’s like midnight and I have to see if my sister was going to pick me up. She won’t even stay and ask me what’s wrong even though I comforted her for like an hour. Ugh. Sorry this is long but it still bugs me. So I leave in the dark crying. Lovely.
Anyway he ends up dating one of his “girl friends” and doesn’t go out with my friend. The night after he said, “It was nice dancing with you two” and makes lesbian jokes. Again, lovely. So he basically brushes my friend away after that dance and dates one of his girl friends. Alright so it’s like a month later and she goes out to coffee with him behind his gf’s back. Not too suspicious since they have been online friends for a year. That’s fine. But then he breaks up with this girl. Okay seems normal and then he invites my friend to a Halloween party. They go and he drags her to parties which pisses me off because she shouldn’t be drinking and hanging around the freaks he hangs around. They make out etc. Great. (Note the sarcasm) -__-
The next day she pulls me aside at school and says she’s scared of the things she did with him (won’t mention). I say “Please don’t have sex with him! Pleeease don’t eff up your life” etc. She goes “I know, I’m just scared it will go too far blah blah.”
I warn her and warn her and warn her. Then she tells me “He says he’d like to wait four days before we officially starting dating because I don’t want to hurt her (her being the girl he previously dated) feelings.”
At that point I was like “No, you’re not going to deal with this ******”
She’s like “I knoww….”
Yet here I am and she’s still dating this creep. We didn’t speak for a month because I was still mad at her. I had to apologize like always. I feel awful because I do not know what to do. Lately I have just been ignoring it. I don’t ask her about him etc. Mostly because I never talk to her anymore. She never calls me at all. It feels like if I never called we wouldn’t talk for years! Or ever for that matter…
So I tested it out and haven’t called her in months. She will not call me. Ever. It’s as if her bf is the only thing she cares about now. She’s even considering going to the same college as him which I think is absurd. You should never go to college for some guy or anyone. Never. It’s just irritating that our friendship just disintegrated because of some guy. I don’t call her anymore, I deleted my myspace and facebook. She didn’t even message me on there! Or instant message me. I’m always the one doing it! I don’t know whether to end the friendship or just be okay with how things are…
Help!
Sorry I kinda rambled there!
Any help would be greatly appreciated!
ok this will be long but here i go
well, i started to get mad at natalie the day i found out the first lie she’d ever told me. and it was a big one….. she started to date my best guy friend “online” and didnt tell anyone but my friend sam. she never tells me or my friend meralee ANYTHING. only sam, but she secretly hates sam. she lied to all of us and told us that sam was forcing her to read playboy, when the truth is she was looking at it not sam. she lies constantly. she is also a huge poser. meralee is a total peacenic, and practically wears peace signs everyday. now nat is OBSESSED with peace signs, its insane. she also copies all of my cool sayings. i tell her to stop, and she denies she uses them and says she didnt know they were mine. when clearly she does. she gives me dirty looks, and the other day she let the door slam in my face. she doesnt have a style. she will hang out with our tom boy friend lily for a day and then at school shell come in wearing completely tom boy clothes. and now, she shops at hollister only because this girl named sam does. she wants to be popular so bad, and she is also trying to be cool. the other day i found out that she is probabl a lesbian, because whenever sam is over her house, sheis pulling down her shirt saying, look at my new bra, and then oops, it slipped. and then she told sam that she sleeps with her finger on her vagina, and then in school she has her finger in her mouth trying to look sexy. WE ARE ONLY 12. all of us hate her. but im the only one that wants to tell her how bad she is. everyone else is too scared. but i cant tlak to her, without my other friends, because i did that with someone else last year, and then they ended up hating me, and the whole school new, but the girl was still friends with all of my other firends, even though they hated her.
i dont know what to do, i wish she would just die, she is a horrible person
and she talks about me behind my back, i know this because me and sam 3 way attacked her yesterday on the phone. she also talks about meralee
and shell invite mertalee to sleepover whenever she gets really mad at me, so ill feel jealous, which i dont because meralee never wants to go and says no everytime. and her mom is like ” girls its already 9 o clock its time to go to bed.
plus nat NEVER washes her hands, because she takes 10 seconds in the bathroom
and she is also talking about how skinny she is because shes 70 pounds and we are all 100. and then shes like “yaaa no offence…”
GRR I HATE HER F HER WHAT DO I DO?!?!
There’s a friend of mine who’s a lesbian, but she hasn’t come out to everyone yet….just me. She’s been dating this girl online for almost a year now and it’s never really been good. She always comes to me to talk about her relationship problems since I’m the only one who knows. Well now they’re trying to decide if they’re going to break up…and I think they should because this girl just seems to playing games with my friend. My friend has texted me everyday for the past 2 weeks about this because she doesn’t know what to do….I’m getting so tired of talking about it because it’s the same thing over and over again. She just texted me about it and i pretty much told her i don’t want to talk about it anymore. Is that being mean of me???
Whenever I tried talking to her about my relationship problems, she would always say “I don’t like him, dump him”
Plus every knows she’s a lesbian, they’re just waiting for her to admit it….so really she could talk to others about this!
Her current girlfriend/exgirlfriend, whatever she is, is always mean and is always being abusive towards my friend. we’re both 21 and she wants to be happy but really she’s not, she even admits she’s not happy. If you answer what makes you the best person to date her I’ll give you 10 points and the chance to meet her online and then from there you both can do what ever. So ladies, this is your chance to find a perfect love. Do you think you are the one?
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