Does My Friend Have A Crush On Me?

First things first: I support LGBTs, really I do.
Ok, one of the girls in my freshmen class has been acting pretty lesbian lately. We first got to know each other through a mutual friend, and she sits next to me in some of my classes and her locker is next to mine. Over the past few weeks, she has been: Rubbing my leg under the table, rubbing my back, leaning on my shoulder, linking her arm with mine, touching my face, hugging me… she even kissed me once. but on the cheek. You might be thinking; “she is definitely a lesbian”
The only thing is, she touches almost everyone. But she does it a lot more often to me. I mean, holding hands-arm over shoulder is ok, but rubbing legs? I think that is a little bit too for “just friends” Do you think she has a crush on me?
And Please don’t approach me or anything, like someone did just now. God, this is an advice page, not an online dating center.

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My Close Friend Who Happens To Be A Lesbian Can’t Find Someone To Date. The Woman Of Her Dreams.?

And NO it’s not me! I’m married. This woman is in the medical profession and makes great money. She’s interesting and fun. On the downside, she’s very tall and somewhat heavy. Yet certainly more attractive than many people out there who have found mates. She’s placed personal ads online and socializes frequently. What advice can I give her? This has been going on for 6 years! She means the world to me and I want her to be happy.

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Is My Best Friend A Lesbian?

My best friend has been struggling a lot with her past over the last few years. Because of this, she’s really starting to try to discover herself. Last year, she started an online relationship with another girl, and when I finally found out about it, she said that the girl was hounding her and wouldn’t leave her alone. That it started out as a friendship, and the girl got the wrong idea. Later, she admitted that she was confused and wondering if she was maybe gay, but at that point she said she had figured it out. That she wasn’t.
So throughout all this, I’ve wondered if she was attracted to me. She gets jealous of my husband, and when we drink, we sometimes all take a lot of pictures of us out and about on the town. In the pictures, she is always looking at me with this loving look and sticking her tongue out-almost licking me, and clingy.
Recently she started dating a guy that she dated in high school. He’s a nice guy, but she is always complaining about him doing things wrong and not being attracted to him. But he is a great guy, and the things she complains about are mostly excuse after conjured excuse.
To top it all off, we are in a Christian group on campus, and although we are both very accepting and one of our good friends is gay, she would be very judged by many people in the Christian community. She struggles with right and wrong, and if she was a lesbian, she might be in denial because she is afraid it is wrong.
I think that she is attracted to me, and it makes me uncomfortable because I have asked her about it, and she denies it. We spend a lot of time together, and she always wants to be touching, to have some contact. I don’t know what to do, b/c it makes me so uncomfortable. If I knew for sure, I wouldn’t care. I love her and she is a great friend, but being unsure makes me feel like she is using our friendship to get something else for herself. What should I do? What do you think?

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