My “friend” Is Being A Horrible Person To Me And My Other Friends?

ok this will be long but here i go
well, i started to get mad at natalie the day i found out the first lie she’d ever told me. and it was a big one….. she started to date my best guy friend “online” and didnt tell anyone but my friend sam. she never tells me or my friend meralee ANYTHING. only sam, but she secretly hates sam. she lied to all of us and told us that sam was forcing her to read playboy, when the truth is she was looking at it not sam. she lies constantly. she is also a huge poser. meralee is a total peacenic, and practically wears peace signs everyday. now nat is OBSESSED with peace signs, its insane. she also copies all of my cool sayings. i tell her to stop, and she denies she uses them and says she didnt know they were mine. when clearly she does. she gives me dirty looks, and the other day she let the door slam in my face. she doesnt have a style. she will hang out with our tom boy friend lily for a day and then at school shell come in wearing completely tom boy clothes. and now, she shops at hollister only because this girl named sam does. she wants to be popular so bad, and she is also trying to be cool. the other day i found out that she is probabl a lesbian, because whenever sam is over her house, sheis pulling down her shirt saying, look at my new bra, and then oops, it slipped. and then she told sam that she sleeps with her finger on her vagina, and then in school she has her finger in her mouth trying to look sexy. WE ARE ONLY 12. all of us hate her. but im the only one that wants to tell her how bad she is. everyone else is too scared. but i cant tlak to her, without my other friends, because i did that with someone else last year, and then they ended up hating me, and the whole school new, but the girl was still friends with all of my other firends, even though they hated her.
i dont know what to do, i wish she would just die, she is a horrible person
and she talks about me behind my back, i know this because me and sam 3 way attacked her yesterday on the phone. she also talks about meralee
and shell invite mertalee to sleepover whenever she gets really mad at me, so ill feel jealous, which i dont because meralee never wants to go and says no everytime. and her mom is like ” girls its already 9 o clock its time to go to bed.
plus nat NEVER washes her hands, because she takes 10 seconds in the bathroom
and she is also talking about how skinny she is because shes 70 pounds and we are all 100. and then shes like “yaaa no offence…”
GRR I HATE HER F HER WHAT DO I DO?!?!

Are There Any Other Lesbians Who Are Just Looking For Friends Online?

I had to actually rephrase my Q since I heard from males and bisexuals,lol. Ok so here I go again..
I am lesbian, and looking for friends only, nothing else, I am in a University with no GLBT community and in a small town . I am in my 30′s, and looking for a mature lesbian over 25 who is also a student and would like to chat and make a new friend. I am not looking to chat with males, or biwomyn, or anyone claiming to be les, who isn’t.
Plz no insults, no bi’s or males, and no reference to a dating site, for I am not looking for relationships or dates, just friends.

Meeting Lesbian Friends And Pen Pals?

I’m still in highschool, and it seems taht every site is geared towards people 18 and up. I would really like to make some lesbian friends, i am one myself, and even thouhg i love my straight friends there are just somethings i don’t like to bother them with, even though i know they’ll listen. So i’m looking for someone or somewhere where i can find a pen pal, or just someone to talk to online, somthing for teens, with all sort of age groups. Nothing like myspace, but some group or somthing, kinda like a dating site, but where you don’t have to be 18.
Any ideas? I’ve tried Craig’s list and none of that has worked…