Online Dating Blog

Hey, I am a gay male, 21, and I have tried being proactive about dating, using online personals, going to bars, etc. I have, thus far, had very little success in meeting anyone and sometimes think it would be best to just wait and let fate take its course. Perhaps one day I will have a friend who will introduce me to the love of my life. But sometimes I think I’m dreaming and this never happens. Yet, I don’t think meeting guys at bars or clubs is a good way eitherr…too many of the guys there just want sex, and that’s not all I’m looking for. Should I just hope someone comes along or is it better to be aggressive? I feel desperate sometimes bc it seems like it’s impossible to meet anyone….but then I tell myself to just be patient…that I’ll meet someone when I’m not even expecting it. Is my head in the clouds? I am pretty average in appearance…maybe that’s why I have trouble meeting guys…