Hi, I’m a gay Asian male…and it seems impossible to find dates, mainly bc of my ethnicity. Look, I know that we are not considered the ideal, attractive partner, but I really wish a few good guys existed that could look beyond this one feature. Actually, a lot of people have told me that I am “cute” (of course they were probably lying), but still…it’s impossible. Even other Asian guys would never want to date me….they all automatically go for the White guys. Honestly, I’m afraid of ending up one of those lonely old men who never found love in life. The only guys who have ever expressed interest in me are 50 year old desperate men or guys that have some sort of perverted Asian fetish. It’s really depressing sometimes. I even tried online personals, but the vast majority automatically rule me out bc of my ethnicity. Their ethnic preferences are always white or hispanic. I’m thinking I should not be so proactive about dating anymore…just let it happen if it happens?
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I’m a lady that meets guys every so often but they all seem to be either gay or weird. I’m not sure why these are the type of guys that I meet but maybe because I only meet guys online. Any advice or stories that u would like to share with me would be greatly appreciated. Thank you very much! Being a Christian, I know that God will introduce me to the right person at the right time, but that could be 10, 20, 30 years from now. How can a person go that long single with no dating? It’s starting to weigh on me. I haven’t had a date in probably over five years now. On the one hand, I’m glad that I haven’t been out one time with all these people just to have them not talk to me afterwards. I would just like some female friends and that would work. I am not neccessarily wanting to get involved, just have at least a girl or two around (not in that way people). I’ve tried dating sites and those are sorely disappointing. I seriously do not get any responses on those things and yes, I try to connect with people. I have met a couple people online and they end up being twice my age, four kids, three divorces and just plain basket cases. Now I am open minded and I did hang out with them for a little bit, but I was looking for more along the lines of my interests and age. As a Christian college student, I find it hard to find single, virgin men. Of course, I’m not any good at just walking up to guys and talking to them. It’s no wonder I’m 22 and still single. I don’t like online dating either, because how do you know you can trust who you’re talking to through online dating sites? And, I’m not physically attractive, so it makes it a lot harder finding someone. It just seems like most men are interested in pretty faces, breasts and sex. I’m a virgin woman, and I’d like to find a virgin man, but it seems like it’s really hard, especially when pop culture says it’s bad to be a virgin. I mean in my opinion online dating sucks, gay bars here in Europe are full of snob queers , straight bars are so boring, even if someone liked you he wouldnt dare to show that at a straight bar, i am very good looking but no one flirts with me. its svks, u know. whats your opinion, ? is it the same in the states? thanks! |
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